Men, listen to me – never let go of a kind-hearted woman. A woman who has a pure soul and who loves truly.
Because this kind of woman is the embodiment of strength. She is the embodiment of empathy and compassion. She is the embodiment of pure, selfless, and unconditional love.
She is unique.
We’ve all seen those Hollywood romantic movies where a woman patiently waits for her boyfriend to figure out what he wants out of life. He is busy focusing on his career and friends rather than her. But, he finally realizes that he’s in love with her and that she’s the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with. And of course, the movie ends when he asks her to marry him.
Sounds wonderful, right?
Well, it’d be wonderful if we lived in a romantic comedy. In real life, things don’t go like that. In real life, a woman that is truly in love with you will be patient and she’ll give you a second or even a third chance to figure out what you want in life, but when she decides that she’s done giving you chances, she is done! And there isn’t anything you could say or do to make her change her mind.
You see, a woman who is genuinely in love with you can give you more chances than you deserve. She can wait for you to figure out what you want out of life and how you really feel about her longer than she should. Why?
Because she believes in you. She believes in your potential. She believes that one day, you will change and become a better partner for her.
But when she realizes that you don’t deserve her and that she’s just been wasting her time on someone who will never be able to reciprocate her love, she’ll walk away. She’ll leave you and there’s nothing you could do to bring her back.
Perhaps you’ll think, “She will wait for me. She will forgive my lies. She will forgive me for every time I made her cry. She loves me and I’ll get back together with her.”
Don’t fool yourself. We women aren’t that naïve and stupid.
Once a woman realizes how beautiful and peaceful her life is without you in it, she won’t think twice about letting go of you.
Once she realizes that you have only been a burden to her – a burden that was dragging her down, draining her energy, and preventing her from living a truly happy and fulfilling life, she’ll no longer put up with your bullsh*t. She’ll no longer tolerate you. She’ll let go of you.
Because no one deserves to live a life full of drama, stress, disappointment, and pain. No one deserves to be strung along. No one deserves to be pressured into dealing with another person’s crappy behavior.
Remember – it was you who pushed her away. It was you who made her leave you.
And remember – she, walking away from you doesn’t mean that she gave up on you. Because there is a big difference between giving up on someone and knowing when you’ve had enough.
Remember – once a woman realizes she’s had enough of you and your bullsh*t, she’ll let go of you.
She’ll let go of you and move on with her life.
She’ll move forward and find someone who values her. Someone who treats her the way she deserves. Someone who sees her worth. Someone who loves her soul more than her body.
She’ll find someone who is always there for her. Someone who sticks with her through thick and thin. Someone who hates to see her worried or hurting and who would do everything in his power to make her pain go away. Someone who knows how valuable she is.
She’ll find someone whose love she doesn’t have to question. Someone who loves her purely, deeply, and intensely. Someone who loves her unconditionally and wholeheartedly. Someone who is sure about her – just like she was sure about you.
You’ll end up regretting pushing away the woman who tried so hard for you!