Unfortunately, in the world of modern dating, pursuing the person you love has become underrated. Because once you’ve been in a relationship with the same person for a certain period of time, things begin to get a little dull. All of a sudden, everything turns into a routine. A habit.
Sounds familiar, right?
But, no! I refuse to accept this. I refuse to follow this course in life. So should you.
Because a real man who is truly in love with the woman he’s in a relationship with never stops pursuing her. He keeps showing his love for her long after he’s won her heart. He keeps wearing his heart on his sleeve and fighting for her. He keeps treating her with kindness, patience, and affection. He keeps treating her with respect and dignity.
He keeps showing her how special she is to him.
That’s the reason why I say: Don’t settle for just any man – settle for the man who will continue pursuing you long after he’s won your heart.
Settle for the man who will get thrilled by the thought of you. The man who will enjoy spending time with you. The man who will enjoy being in your presence.
Settle for the man who will put effort into the relationship. The man who will be willing to step out of his comfort zone and go the extra mile to make you happy. The man who won’t be afraid to sacrifice his own needs and wishes for the sake of the relationship.
Settle for the man who will make sure the romance and flame of passion between you stay alive forever. The man who will plan your date nights. The man who will notice every detail about you. The man who will do those little things which actually mean the most to you, like leaving cute little love notes on your pillow in the morning or sending flowers to you at work.
Settle for the man who will make you feel like you’re the happiest, most fulfilled, and most loved person in the world. The man who will openly and proudly show you how much he loves you. The man who won’t be afraid to undress his soul in front of you and share his deepest insecurities and fears with you.
Settle for the man who will be sure about you. The man who will never make you doubt his feelings for you or wonder where your relationship is headed.
Settle for the man who will understand the importance of pursuing you. The man who will fight for you with every fiber of his being. The man who will proudly tell the world how happy he is for having you in his life. The man who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. The man who will love you genuinely. Deeply. Selflessly. Wholeheartedly. Unconditionally.