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A Real Man Who Truly Loves You Will Always Put You First


You have a big heart, my darling.

And you have so much love to give to this world…

So much… Yet you keep giving it to all the wrong people.

You, my dear, have only one wish. And that is to find true, ever-lasting love and be loved deeply and madly. Your heart beats, breaks, hurts, aches, and exists only to find the most important missing piece of your puzzle. Another soul that speaks fluently as yours. Another heart that beats as loudly as yours. Another person that accepts you just the way you are.

Yet you keep making the same mistakes over and over again.

You trust people that shouldn’t be trusted. You hand your heart to them on a silver platter like it means absolutely nothing to you. You, my dear, close your eyes before the truth.

And eventually, you get hurt…

You get hurt because you put all of your faith into people who are not capable of giving you what you need. People who are not capable of loving you the way you deserve.

A real man will never do that to you.

A real man will care for you and always put you first. He will treat you as a priority in his life. He will put everything else aside and make space for you in his world. He’ll love telling you how important you are to him because the one thing he’ll care about the most is your trust in him. But he won’t just say the words. Instead, he’ll put his best efforts into making himself worthy of your love and trust.

A Real Man Always Puts His Woman First

A real man will make you feel happy. His sole presence in your life will put a smile on your face and make you feel things that you’ve never felt before. For this man will be the one that you’ve been searching for your entire life. Your soulmate. Your lover. Your friend. Your entire world into one human being.

A real man will be the kind of man who always asks you what you want to do or where you want to go. He will know exactly what your preferences and dislikes are. He will care about your needs and do everything that he can to meet them. A real man will make you fall in love with each and every single day for the rest of your life. And you will. For he will be the one. The one who helps you open your heart. The one who teaches you what love is. The one spends his entire life in your loving embrace.

A real man will never ask you to change for him. Nor he will try to shape you into someone that you’re not. He will, in fact, fall in love with the real version of you. He will be smitten by your true colors. And he’ll enjoy getting to know more about you every day for the rest of your lives. A real man will appreciate your differences as well as your flaws so much that he’ll do anything to convince you that they aren’t your weaknesses, but your greatest strengths.

A real man will love you, my darling.  

He will love you in ways you never imagined a person is capable of loving.

Don’t waste your love on anything less than this.

Stephanie Reeds