There are some people that just radiate with charm and charisma and capture everyone’s attention. And I am not talking about looks. It’s just that there is something about them that is so enchanting and mesmerizing that draws people like magnets to them.
And psychologists have discovered 8 main psychological reasons why certain people look more attractive than others and not only in a physical way.
1. They are ambitious.
Having big ambitions and goals emits rays of positivity from inside the person. Everyone wants to be around someone whose life dreams are great and inspiring. And especially they admire and want to be around someone who works hard to achieve them. Because if you can dream it, you can do it.
2. They don’t complain.
Complaining won’t make your life better or solve your problems. People who are always whining about how miserable everything in their life is will never be attractive because no one wants to be around people who complain about everything.
Contrary, people who have a positive outlook on life are very attractive and fun to be around. Their radiating optimism is one of the crucial reasons why other people are enticed by them.
3. They focus on one thing at a time.
The truth is nobody likes people who have short attention spans. Every person wants to be around people who are one hundred percent present all the time. Everyone wants to feel like they matter, so we are drawn to people with whom we feel that our opinions matter and they enjoy our company.
4. They imitate other people’s behavior.
When they are out with someone, charming people (whether knowingly or unknowingly) imitate the behavior of the other person. They act like their mirror because they understand the importance of being on the same page with people and that people tend to like more people who are more like them.
5. They are self-aware.
Self-aware people are very attractive to others because they are determined, they know their strengths and weaknesses and they know how powerful they are. They are attractive because they are grounded, they know what they want and how to achieve it, and they are easy to maintain a relationship with because they are honest people who will tell you straightforwardly what they want from you.
6. They are confident.
Being confident in your own skin means that there is no room in your heart for envy and jealousy. When you believe in you, you will have the courage you need to follow your passions and be authentic. People tend to get attracted to confident people because they adore their strong aura and their ability to take hold of almost any situation.
7. They use body gestures.
Not maintaining eye contact when speaking to someone is one of the rudest and most unattractive things. It is a fact that 90% of the first impression is based on the person’s body language. People judge other people by their body movements.
It is very important to wear a smile, stand straight, and look into people’s eyes when you are communicating with them. It will instantly make you more attractive and people would want to spend more time with you.
8. They are great storytellers.
People who are amazing conversationalists and who can initiate interesting and mind-opening topics are instantly more attractive to others. Others tend to gravitate towards people who can share interesting stories and experiences from their life.
As someone once said, “after nourishment, shelter, and companionship, stories are the thing we need most in the world.”