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10 Reasons Why I’m Not A Woman You Settle For – If You Aren’t Totally Crazy About Me, Go Away!


I am not someone who settles, and I don’t want someone to settle for me. Here is why if you are not absolutely crazy in love with me, you should go away and leave me alone.

1. I Hate Settling (And You Should Too)

I would never settle because I love my life too much and life is too short for me to settle for things that don’t fulfill me in a real way. I would rather be alone and be happy on my own, than settle and be with someone just for the sake of being with someone.

2. I Want Someone to Like Me for Me

I am not the one you feel you should be with because your family approves of me, or you think that I fulfill your standards and criteria. I am a real human being and I deserve to be with someone who really appreciates me and loves me for who I am.

3. Being with You Needs to Feel Right

Being in a relationship with you needs to feel absolutely right. It needs to feel comfortable and natural. I must be myself around you. If something is just not right between us, then I don’t see a reason why we should be together.

4. I Want to Feel Great About Myself

I don’t want to be with someone who will make me feel bad about myself. I don’t want to be in a relationship where I would have to question everything or walk on eggshells. I want to feel happy, great, and at peace.

5. Love Is A Two-Way Street

If you don’t love me then I am not going to wait around and wait for you to change your mind and realize I am the one for you. I respect myself enough to walk away from those who don’t reciprocate the love I give them.  

6. I Have My Own Dreams and Plans for The Future

My dreams and goals in life are not to fall for emotionally unavailable people. I dream of finding someone who will love me and understand me on a soul level, someone with whom I can build a future based on mutual love, trust, understanding, passion, and respect.

7. I Realized You Can’t Force Love

It is pointless to think that you can make someone love you or to think that you can force yourself to love someone when you don’t. You will only make yourself miserable.

8. I Want to Feel Wanted

I want to feel wanted and this means I want someone who will look at me like I am something magical and precious. I want someone whose eyes will sparkle with love and desire when I am around them. I won’t settle for anything less than that.

9. I Want My Experiences to Be Amazing

I am someone who wants everything in my life to be meaningful. I want to share all my experiences with someone great, someone who makes me happy. That’s why I refuse to settle for mediocre things.

10. I Deserve True Love

Everyone deserves true love. No one should settle for anything that doesn’t fulfill their soul and makes them happy. No one should settle for less than what their heart beats for.

Mary Wright