Have you noticed that female empaths struggle to find love?
No matter what they do, it is somehow very hard for them to meet a person with whom they can truly be themselves. Why? Because not all of the people out there vibrate on the same frequency as these human beings.
Loving a woman with a pure and empathic soul can be quite challenging and difficult for some men. Even though her hypersensitive nature is a true blessing, sometimes it can also be a big burden for the entire relationship. And so sometimes, some men are simply unable to handle that kind of a situation.
If you are wondering why that is, here are 8 reasons why most men cannot handle a woman with a pure and empathic heart:
1. THEY WANT TO ENGAGE IN LONG-LASTING, LOVING RELATIONSHIPS
Empaths are people who believe in love and are not interested in short-term flings or casual one-night stands. Instead, they look for a deep and meaningful connection. They don’t want to waste their love on people who aren’t worth their time because deep down they know that each and every person out there has their own soulmate somewhere waiting for them.
2. THEY ARE AN OPEN BOOK
And as a result, they value honesty more than anything in the world. While most of us would prefer to be lied than faced with the truth, empaths could never accept such a thing. They always tell the truth, so they want the same thing in return.
3. THE ENERGY THEY RADIATE WITH IS TOO INTENSE
Empaths are people who cannot settle for anything that has no soul. Whether it is a relationship, a work position, a friend or just a project – everything they do must include 100% of their energy. Sadly, while this is something that only the rarest, most amazing people possess, some men are simply not powerful enough to handle it. They are immediately overwhelmed by that kind of intensity.
4. THEY CAN SEE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE
And just imagine how much of a deal breaker this is for someone who has many dark parts that he does not want to reveal to anyone. The truth is, empaths can sense both the bad and the good in people. That is the reason why most of the time they are not accepted by some.
5. THEY KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE
A female empath is also known for being a completely independent human being. She has been through a lot in life which means she already knows what she wants in life. The problem arises when a man tries to convince her that he already knows what’s best for her. In other words, when someone tries to change her.
6. THEY LOVE PURELY AND COMMIT FULLY
Committing to a loving and long-lasting relationship is one of the most amazing things in life. Empaths agree with that. Sadly, their pure love and commitment are sometimes perceived as clinginess. And well, you know how it goes. This intimidates insecure and immature men who are not ready to date and love one woman only.
7. THEY ARE INDEPENDENT HUMAN BEINGS
I know that this sounds like a contradiction, but at the end of the day, that’s what these people are. A walking contradiction. They want a pure, all-consuming, can’t-leave-without-each-other love, but at the same time, they want their freedom. Loving another person does not mean giving up their identity for them. Sadly, this is something that most conservative men don’t quite get.
8. THEY CRAVE REAL INTIMACY
And when I say intimacy, I don’t mean physical closeness only. A passionate sexual connection is one thing and a profound emotional bond is a completely another. Female empaths crave a combination of both. They need a man who will not only touch their body but will also find his way to the darkest depths of their hearts. And most importantly, someone who will love them with all of their flaws.