Being in the world of a narcissist is like being stuck in a game of chess. The only difference, however, is that they’re the only one who knows the rules and you have no idea that you’re even playing. They’re experts and every move that they make is calculated, but you end up getting nowhere. As a result, they win every time because of your lack of knowledge.
This doesn’t need to be the case. You can take back your power and win against them if you know how to play. So, this is how you can beat a narcissist at their own sick game.
All They Care About is Winning
Every move that they make is precisely planned to ensure their own victory. That’s the only thing that they will ever give a damn about, no matter the cost. Since they don’t have a single shred of empathy in them, they’ll do whatever it takes. Anyone who gets hurt along the way is just a casualty that doesn’t affect them.
So, they’ll do anything to beat you. They’ll use the most heinous tactics to manipulate you and control you. Worse still, they’ll abuse you emotionally and use you for their own gain. As long as they’re winning, they don’t care how much they’re hurting you. In fact, they love it. Nothing brings them more joy than the pleasure of abusing you and the knowledge that they’re always one step ahead of you.
They’re not going to let you win. They will fight tooth and nail to make sure that you are always beneath them. To put it lightly, trying to get the best of them will be difficult. In all honesty, it’s going to feel completely impossible.
They Change Their Tactic Constantly
You need to understand that a narcissist’s game isn’t straightforward. There isn’t one clear route that you need to follow if you want to keep up. Trust me when I say that this is the most complicated, confusing, and stressful game that you’ll ever be a part of. All of that is mainly because of how adaptable they are.
If they need to be the victim, you can be sure they’ll act like the victim. Worse still, they’ll even manage to make you feel sorry for them as well. Likewise, when they need to overpower you, they won’t hold back. They can be as frightening or as calm as they need to be. Because of that, you’re always going to be on your toes.
This Is How You Win
By now, I think you’re starting to get an idea of just how hard this game will be. Furthermore, you’re probably beginning to realize that it will be even harder to win too. The truth is, you can’t win this game. Even if you think you have, they’ll change the rules. They will do whatever they have to do to make sure that you keep playing.
So, there really is only one solution. The only real way to beat a narcissist at their own game is to quit. It’s time to say “game over” and put a stop to it once and for all. That way, nobody wins, and you can get away before they do even more damage to you. Trust me, you don’t want to play their game.
If you’re unfortunate to be living the nightmare that is life with a narcissist, then there’s no doubt that they’re going to manipulate you as much as they can. They’re going to try and force you to play their disgusting games and will do anything to beat you. So, don’t let them suck you in. Don’t play. Cut them out of your life and avoid anything to do with them. Doing so is the only way that you can be happy.
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