It’s true that we all have our little dark sides that usually come in the way of genuine happiness and bonding, or at least we like to think that way. But regardless of the things you might not like in your woman, there are some qualities which you should never take for granted.
If you woman does any of these 12 things, you should definitely consider her as someone who cares for you very much.
1. SHE KNOWS HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR ANGER
We all get into situations when we’re totally pissed off. It’s in these situations that the most negative situations in a relationship can happen, especially if both partners have a short fuse.
If, however, your woman knows how to maneuver through the dizzy currents of your anger and manages to calm you down and let you think more clearly, she is definitely someone who knows you well and cares for your emotional state.
2. SHE TRUSTS YOU
If your woman shows genuine trust toward you and is willing to accept your explanations as valid and worthy of consideration, make sure you don’t disappoint her there. We all know those girls who can’t help but rummage through their partners’ possessions in hopes to find something incriminating.
Mistrust is poisonous. If, however, you have given her a reason to be suspicious, know that she’ll be the first one to find out what you’re hiding. Trust comes with such power.
3. SHE DOESN’T TAKE YOUR EXCUSES
Because excuses are just that – a waste of words. You may want to put them in a tidy spot to avoid tough moments, but she won’t fall for them easily because she cares more than that. She wants you to succeed and she will do everything to help you push your limits.
It may not feel nice when you see that someone isn’t falling for your excuses and doesn’t give you a break at those moments, but that’s something we all need if we want to grow and succeed in life. She wants to see you do that.
4. SHE SHARES YOUR TASTES
When it comes to creating valuable time together, she will always be happy to join you in the things you love doing. Be it watching movies of your favorite genre, or listening to the music you both love, these are things that you’ll both be doing quite often if it’s a long-term relationship.
If you see that you’re both interested in similar things and enjoy similar activities, you know that you’ll never get bored with her.
5. SHE BELIEVES IN YOU
Life is tough, and some things are simply too hard to do alone. However, she will always be the first person to believe in you and she will show you her support in the things she knows you can do – and there’s nothing you can’t do really.
She will help you by constantly fueling your fire and motivating you to reach new heights. She knows that love is much more than being together with someone, and she will use this enormous drive to help you achieve whatever you’re not sure you can.
6. SHE DOESN’T APPLY THE ‘ELASTIC BAND THEORY’
The ‘elastic band theory’ states that men need their space, and sometimes it can be a huge space. According to this theory, women should treat their men like rubber bands: when they need space, they should go way too further, much like you would stretch a rubber band. And when they’re gone, they will realize their woman’s value all the more and come back with a much stronger force.
However, there are girls who consider this theory as nothing more than taking their men for granted. She will be ready to take you with all your perfect imperfections and she won’t have it any other way. She would rather keep you by her side and show you the support you need – because we all need support.
7. SHE MAKES YOU ACT, NOT JUST DREAM
Inspiring action is much more important than inspiring dreams, simply because we can’t wake up from the former. And if your woman does everything to inspire you to act on your dreams, she’s definitely someone who knows and loves your dreams more than you can.
She makes you get up each morning with the aim to accomplish your ambitions, and she doesn’t give up on you. That’s a blessing not everyone is happy to experience.
8. SHE BRINGS OUT THE GOOD IN YOU
We all have a bad side and a good side. While there are some people that are masters at getting the worst out of you, she will be the one who will inspire the good in you to blossom forth.
She will challenge your negative perceptions and make you see the good in everything around you, and she will show you that there is beauty in the world. Isn’t that the most beautiful gift you can receive from someone?