Look, it is simple…
If you like to live by the rule “There are plenty of fishes in the sea”, you don’t deserve her pal. If you don’t think that you can commit to her, she is not the one for you.
I may sound harsh, but that is the truth.
All she wants is someone who will love her for real. All she needs is unconditional support from a partner who will always be there to catch her when she falls. If you cannot give that to her, please leave her.
If she is not your priority, don’t waste her time. Don’t lie to her that you want to be with her. Don’t take her for a fool. Don’t underestimate her. Don’t play with her love. This woman has shown you a piece of her heart. She does not deserve to be strung along. If you are not interested in anything less than playing games with her, walk away.
If she is not your first choice, don’t take away her happiness. She deserves to find a man who would treat her nicely. She wasn’t born to be condemned to a life of sorrow and misery. She was raised to believe in true love. And she will never settle for less. So, if you are not interested in her, let her chase after her happiness.
If you cannot love her, don’t look into her eyes and whisper in her ear. It all depends on how you feel about her. Do you feel like you can be the person who will hold her hand when she needs you? If the answer is no, then don’t pretend you can do that. Stop telling her sweet, little lies. Stop gazing into her eyes. Don’t encourage her to open up to you if you are not ready to do the same for her.
If you cannot commit to her, please leave her alone. Walk away and stop torturing her. Don’t lie to her. Don’t half-love. Don’t pretend you need her. Don’t manipulate her. Don’t play with her feelings. Just don’t do anything that you are not certain of. Instead, leave her alone and let her find her happiness someplace else. Let her unravel what the future has in store for her.
If you don’t care for her, don’t expect her to care for you. She is the kind of woman who loves until her very last breath. When she falls for someone, she opens her heart and gives in completely. She believes in fairytales stories because she has been raised by people who have taught her to never settle for less than the real thing. People who have shown her how love really feels. So, don’t expect her to accept breadcrumbs…
She wants all or nothing.
If you can’t give that to her, someone else will.