If she is not your first choice, please, don’t waste her time. In fact, don’t waste her life. Don’t take her for granted. And don’t treat her like an option. Don’t tell her that you are interested in getting to know her. Don’t let her think that you are capable of loving her the way she deserves. Don’t play games with her thinking that you can easily get her in the sack just because she is a kind person.
If she is not your priority, don’t look her in the eyes and don’t ask her about her life. Don’t make her think that you are head over heels in love with her. Don’t let her open up about her past and who she is as a person. Don’t beg her to show you her scars and insecurities. Don’t convince her that she is safe with you. She isn’t.
If she is not your first choice, don’t string her along by telling her that you want to spend your future with her. If you want to explore your possibilities, don’t make her think that you have serious intentions with her. Don’t lead her on. Don’t make her fall in love if you are only with her to have some fun. Don’t mess with her heart if you are not ready to love her like you mean it.
If she is not your priority, don’t stop her from finding her own happiness. Don’t waste her energy and her precious time on something that will only break her heart into pieces. Don’t make her think that you will be there when she finally opens up and falls madly in love with you. Don’t act like you are jealous of her when she is only there to fill a void in your sad, little life. Don’t lie to her that she is the only person that you want to be with for the rest of your life. Don’t treat her like she is a fool, because she is not.
If she is not your first choice, then please, don’t expect her to make you a priority. She the kind of woman who dreams of finding pure, unconditional love. She believes in fairytales and she believes in happy, ever afters. She is the kind of woman who would do everything to make you the happiest person alive. But don’t expect her to do all of this if you are not willing to love her the way she deserves.
If she is not your priority in life, leave her. Stop disturbing her peace and let her go already. Stop giving her crumbles instead of the whole loaf. Stop lying to her. Stop pretending that you will always be there. Stop manipulating her. Be a man and think about her feelings for once. Abandon her before it’s too late. Walk away before you break her precious heart to pieces and leave her begging for mercy.
You will never be able to meet this woman halfway. You will never be strong enough to give her the love she needs. Let her fly away and find someone who will. She deserves to find her happiness.