The narcissist is the greatest manipulator out there. They lack compassion and empathy and that’s why when it comes to breaking someone’s heart and abandoning them, they don’t give a damn. Their leaving is the most hurtful one because of the way they choose to walk away from their victim leaving nothing but sadness, anger, and devastation behind. Here are 7 ways a narcissist will leave you.
1. TALKING SHIT BEHIND YOUR BACK
Trashing you to other people is a common narcissist’s escape game. They will do anything to degrade you and smear your name because they want to appear like they are the good ones to everyone they know. They don’t want to destroy their “perfect” image, so they will shit on yours and present you like an unstable, crazy person.
2. THEY WILL GHOST YOU
When a narcissist decides that they no longer want to be with you, they will get rid of you simply – they will disappear from your life all of a sudden. You won’t be able to track them down because they will ignore your calls and messages. That’s how evil they are!
3. THEY WILL REPLACE YOU WITH SOMEONE NEW
When a narcissist leaves their victim is usually because they have found someone new to replace them with. The narcissist is addicted to attention and validation, so they can’t stay without a partner. Their restless and twisted personality always craves for more.
4. THEY WILL MAKE YOU THE GUILTY ONE FOR THE BREAKUP
Like we discussed before, a narcissist will never allow themselves to be seen as ‘the bad one.’ Therefore, they will accuse the victim for the breakup and blame them for anything so that they can protect their grandiose ego and image.
5. YOU LOVING THEM IS THEIR ULTIMATE WEAPON TO USE YOU
The narcissist knows you love them. That’s why they will use your dependence on them as a weapon to manipulate you. When they want to get back with you, they will give you attention and reel you back in, only to dismiss you again once you prove your love to them.
6. THEY HAVE A PATTERN: BREAK UP THEN MAKE UP, AND THEN BREAK UP AGAIN…
It is the famous hot and cold technique that narcissist use to make you addicted to them. They will hurt your feelings by loving you one day and then acting as if you don’t exist the next. Don’t let them do that to you. Shield yourself and your heart.
7. THEY BREAK UP WITH YOU TO DESTROY YOU
They know you have a weakness for them. That’s why they will break up with you only to hurt you and make themselves feel important. That’s how evil they are. Don’t let them destroy you. Be the first to cut the cord with them and walk away.