When a relationship ends, it’s hard not to blame yourself. You start to think about all the things you did wrong and all the ways you could’ve done it all better. Likewise, if you have an anxiety disorder, you start to obsess over all the ways that it probably tore and your partner apart.
However, if you’ve found your soulmate, nothing could ever ruin that. Having anxiety could never destroy your relationship if you’re with the right person.
The Right Person is Out There
I know you’re probably thinking that you’ll never be able to find real love. You probably think that your anxiety has doomed you to a life of solitude and sadness. Despite what you may think, you couldn’t be more wrong. Although you may not have found your twin flame yet, they’re out there.
When you least expect it, someone amazing is going to come into your life. They’re going to be the person who loves you unconditionally and in spite of all your flaws. Even if you think that your disorder is going to drive them away from you, trust me when I tell you that it won’t. If they love you enough, they’re never going to let that come between you.
Most of all, all they’re going to want to do is help you. When your anxiety is at its worst, they’re going to hold you close and tell you that it’s going to be okay. They’re going to be understanding when you just need some time alone or when you have to cancel the plans at the last minute. No matter what, they’re going to do whatever it takes to support you because that’s what real love is.
Nothing Is Ever Perfect
Being in love won’t mean that everything is going to be perfectly easy from now on. In all honesty, it’s going to be hard. However, being with the right person is something worth fighting for no matter how difficult it may seem.
Sometimes they’re going to feel frustrated with you. You might ask them a million times if they still like you and that may upset them because they want you to already know the answer. When you push them away because of how scared you are, it can hurt them because all they want is to love you. So no, it won’t be easy, but that doesn’t mean that it won’t be the most amazing experience of your life.
If you two really love each other, then nothing can really get in the way of that. As long as you both know how you really feel about one another, then both of you will continue to put in the effort. You’ll both work hard to keep your relationship strong. When both of you are working together like that, nothing can tear you apart, not even your anxiety.
It may sound cliché, but it’s true that if it’s meant to be, it will be. When you’re with the wrong person, something is going to go wrong, be it your anxiety or anything else. However, when you’re with the right person, that’s a relationship made to last. Not even your own mind could tear that apart.
Share this article with someone with anxiety who’s hasn’t found the one yet. Let them know that their soulmate is out there somewhere, waiting to love them.
