Of course, everyone wants to be the best mom for their children. However, that doesn’t mean that you need to be perfect. We as human beings are not perfect and we are not meant to be. There are no perfect moms just like there are no perfect children. But that’s the thing that makes this world colorful and interesting.
No one can give you instructions on how to be the best mom for your kids, but in time you will understand that it doesn’t matter if you are failing at some things as long as you are there to support your children every time they need you. As long as you love them with all your heart and might, you will be the greatest mother.
If you care about your and your child’s needs you will do great. If you are happy to be a mother and have accepted all the blessings that come from motherhood, then you have nothing to worry about. So, don’t stress over when you can’t do something you want. Don’t obsess over unimportant things. Don’t focus on your and your kids’ mistakes. Rather, focus on the things they do right and encourage them to continue behaving like that.
Make your children happy and teach them how to be happy every day by being happy in their presence.
You won’t be happy all the time, you will be overwhelmed and sad at times, but that’s all normal. However, if you are happy most of the time and you make it a priority to promoting happiness and share light your kids will be delighted to have you as their mother.
If you are a mother who meets the needs of your children and always makes sure to put a smile on their face, then you are doing well your job and you deserve a medal. You deserve to be recognized and appreciated for your efforts and energy.
And even if you make a mistake, your kids will still love you. They won’t think less of you if you are having a bad day or they see you failing at something. They will still see the real you – the caring and loving mother that is supporting them.
Therefore, don’t be obsessed with becoming a super-mom because you already are!
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