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Don’t Settle For A Man Who Sees You As “Good Enough,” Settle For The One Who Is Sure About You


First of all, let me tell you that I fully understand when you say that he’s the man of your dreams.

I know you believe that he’s ‘The One.’ That you have finally found your missing half. Your soulmate.

I understand you, I truly do. He’s handsome, smart, and easygoing. He’s charming, kind, supportive, and loving.  He showers you with affection. He treats you in ways no one has ever treated you before. He possesses all the qualities you’ve always searched for in a man. Yet…

Yet, he still doesn’t appear to be sure about you.

He loves you and cares about you. He’s told you and shown you this many times. He enjoys spending time with you and every moment that you spend together makes the connection between you deeper and stronger.

When he looks at you, your heart beats like crazy and you can feel the chemistry between you two. And the way he talks to you when you’re feeling down in the dumps makes you feel privileged for having him in your life.

He knows that what you have is special and your relationship is important to him. Yet, he can’t make up his mind about whether you should take your relationship to the next level. It’s not like he wants to destroy everything you have, but he doesn’t feel ready to commit to you forever.

So, because you don’t want to rush things, you give him time and patiently wait for him to make up his mind about you.

But, trust me – you shouldn’t.

Because you deserve someone who is sure about you.

You deserve someone who is sure about your relationship. Someone who is willing to commit to you.


It’s true – we all need time and space to make decisions which can change our lives forever. However, when you are sure about someone, when you love someone honestly and wholeheartedly, and when you can’t imagine spending the rest of your life without someone, you don’t make that person wait for you. You don’t string them along. You don’t keep them wait for you for ages to make up your mind about them.

Instead, you show them how much you love them and how much they mean to you. You let them know that they’re your choice.

Therefore, never settle for less than what you deserve.

Never settle for a man who thinks you are “good enough” – settle for the one who is a 100 percent sure about you.

Settle for the man who understands that you give his life meaning. That you make his life more fulfilling and interesting.

Settle for the man who knows your worth. The man who believes in you even when you don’t. The man who is aware of all your qualities and strength and who knows and embraces your insecurities and fears as well. The man who accepts and loves you just the way you are.

Settle for the man that doesn’t leave at the first sign of trouble. The man that understands that you two will face many challenges and problems in your relationship, but also knows that you can overcome any obstacle together.

Settle for the man that chooses you every single day. The man that proudly wears his heart on his sleeve. The man that loves you honestly, deeply, and madly. The man that is always there for you when you need him. The man that matches you on all levels. The man whose soul reflects yours.

Riley Cooper