Sometimes people take for granted the ones that have their best interest at heart. Sometimes people hurt their loved ones without having the intention to do that. At other times, they just take them for granted and toss them aside.
If you are the girl that is always there for others, then you have the biggest heart of them all. You feel deeply. You help people. You fall for the ones that take you for granted. You give without receiving anything in return.
If you are the girl who keeps giving your love like it’s on sale, without being loved back, just stop and think for a second. Girl, think whether this guy asks how you are or checks in to hear how your day went. It’s the little things that bring joy into your life after all. All you really need is a couple of little things that will brighten your day and bring a smile to your face.
But, Girl, you shouldn’t always be the one to hold all the strings together. I know that deep down you know that you need someone to encourage you. Deep down you know that it takes two to build a relationship.
Just paint a simple picture in your head. Think about how wonderful it will be if you and the one you love give the same amount of respect and attention to each other. Girl, remind yourself that you deserve someone who will put the same amount of time and energy into the relationship as you always do.
Remind yourself that you don’t have to be the fixer every time. If you tried a couple of times and there was no response even slightly near to what you are giving, then it’s time to move on. You have tried and now it’s time to heal and become stronger for the guy who will absolutely be there for you.
On the other hand, if you are the guy that keeps hurting her without intention or just tossing her aside constantly, just stop doing that. This girl you keep tossing aside is, in fact, the one that is filling your solitude. She is the one that finds the energy to keep the relationship going. She is the one that builds you up, even if you don’t notice it.
When no one is there, is she the one you call? Of course, she is. She supports you no matter what. Because she knows that she would want you to support her when she needs someone to rely on.
Don’t you think there is something wrong with always being the guy that repeatedly depends on his girl? Don’t you think that when you expect her to give you the best at your worst times, she expects nothing but the same from you?
Do you know how many times your girl has given you second chances and still chosen you? Well, wake up, boy before your girl wakes up and runs away forever. What comes after she runs, you ask? You’ll lose her and you’ll regret that. I know that you don’t want to regret losing her.
That’s why you need to wake up and show her respect and love . Just show your girl attention and she will blossom. Talk to her and hold her hand. If you want to keep this girl by your side, never take her for granted and never stop working on the relationship.
On the other hand, if you can find yourself in these words and if you know for sure that this girl is not the right one for you, then know that liberating her is the right thing to do. Liberate her and she will find love in another place because you are not the guy she needs.
Free yourself as well and find a girl you will really respect and care deeply for. No matter whose side you are on, believe me when I say that for every person, there is an adequately similar person to create one perfect whole.
To find someone that will love you at the same level you love them is a wonderful feeling. And you will get that wonderful feeling once you learn what you deserve. And you, darling – deserve the best.
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