What does falling in love unconditionally feel like?
The other day, I asked my mother how she deals with all the little imperfections my dad has. And her answer was so simple – she said that she learned how to love them.
People are not perfect. People are imperfect. That is what makes us distinct from one another. That is why we are unique. We learn how to live with our imperfections. And we look for someone imperfect who will love us and live with our imperfections too.
Everyone can love unconditionally. You just haven’t found the one yet. What exactly does it mean to love unconditionally? Well, the trick lies in accepting your partner for whoever he or she is.
This little trick is also called adulthood or unconditional relationship. You fall in love and despite every flaw or silly idea your partner has, you learn how to live with it and not to judge everything they say or like.
Unconditional love is all about the respect and support you and your partner give each other without expecting anything in return. To be more specific – you don’t value your partner for the job they have, the car they own, or the apartment they live in. Instead, you value them for the mutual support and empathy you two share.
You don’t fall in love with someone just because they play football very well and you love football. You don’t fall in love with someone because they are good at playing the piano and you love classical music. You fall in love with someone because no matter what they do, you see them as a friend and as a lover.
Loving someone unconditionally means accepting their flaws and learning how to live with them. For example, if your partner treated you unfairly or said something that you didn’t like, you should try to understand where that behavior came from. You try to understand where things went wrong and you talk things out with them.
When you truly fall in love with someone, you care deeply for them. You don’t make the relationship hard. Instead, both you and your significant other enjoy each other’s company. You can’t wait until you speak again with them and listen to each other’s stories.
Moreover, unconditional love means unconditional support and encouragement. You want to see your partner succeed because that’s what they want. You are there for each other in any way possible. You support each other in the decisions and the choices you make. You encourage each other to pursue your dreams and hopes.
Of course, if they make a mistake, you help them correct it and choose the right direction in life. If you are honest with each other, your relationship will bloom. You will build a beautiful future together and make your love even deeper.
Wait for the one you’re going to love unconditionally. Wait for the one you’re going to love with all of their imperfections. If you’ve found them, then love every bit of them and enjoy every minute you spend together.
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