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All You Should Know About Speed Dating in 2020

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Meeting new people has become pretty challenging in 2020 when we have to socially distance ourselves and stay at home most of the time. However, it doesn’t mean you can’t find your significant other without going to public places. Tinder and other dating apps are a decent solution, but what about the old-fashioned meeting people face-to-face? Well, then speed dating comes to the rescue (of course, social distancing rules have to be taken into account).

If for the last year you’ve been sitting at home reading all the best dating advice you’ve found online, it’s high time to put it into fair use. Speed dating will allow you to meet someone in person, establish a connection, and then decide whether you want to see each other again. Of course, if you’re a newbie, there are some things you need to know – so we’ve collected all of them here. Now you won’t have to worry about dealing with the challenges – read on to be prepared and get the most out of the experience.

What Exactly Is Speed Dating?

Basically, speed dating is an event where single people can meet other single people. You’ll have a certain amount of time to speak to every girl (or guy) at the meeting, and then, after the date, you can exchange phone numbers with the person you liked or get their email address from the event planner. In the pandemic times, online speed dating events have become quite popular – they’re held on Zoom and other web platforms, so you won’t even have to exit your home.

As speed dating is very fast, it can be frustrating and difficult to get to know the other person better. This is why it’s essential to be yourself and try to break the ice as quickly as possible, so you won’t be embarrassed; even some basic small talk will help the other person determine whether they want to see you once again.

Of course, speed dating is not for everyone. Outgoing people will have an easier time at speed dating than introverts. Of course, if you want to find your special someone, sometimes it takes a lot of courage to go out and meet them. However, if speed-dating seems like a nerve-wreaking event for you, it may be better to think about other ways of meeting people – for example, over the Internet.

How do I Sing Up?

It’s easy! If you’re looking for online speed dating, you can search for the event in Google – or use apps, like FilterOff or Bumble. And if you’re looking for offline speed dating, it may be a little harder – but nothing too challenging. All it takes is to search “speed dating near me” online and sign up via the form on the website.

Sometimes you need to monitor social media for some time until there’s an event in your area. Usually, different clubs and religious groups organize them, and most often, you can sign on even if you don’t belong to the group.

How to Behave?

The first rule of speed dating: be truthful. You don’t have to tell the other person about your hobbies that someone may not find extremely interesting, but stay true to yourself. It’s never a good idea to interpret yourself as someone you’re not. When someone likes you, they’ll find out the truth when you two start dating – and it doesn’t always end well.

When you come to the speed dating event, be prepared to talk a lot and stay engaged. Nothing will make a worse first impression than when your partner starts checking his phone during the conversation or gets distracted by something or someone. Smile, and don’t only talk about yourself. To know more about the other person, you need to let them speak – and listen carefully. This will allow you to make a powerful first impression and get the person you liked.

Finally, dress to impress. After all, it’s several first dates, all in a short time and in one place. Even though talking is important, appearance still plays an important role when it comes to first impressions.

What do I Talk About? 

It’s always an excellent idea to have a list of questions prepared for speed dating. Sometimes the group that holds the event provides them – but it’s always better to make them yourself. Craft the questions in a way that makes them funny and exciting to answer – this will brighten the conversation, help you learn more about the person you talk to, and allow them to differentiate you from the others. Ask about the other person’s passions, likes and dislikes, dreams, plans, and exciting stories from their lives.

Never talk about exes, politics, religion, money, or marriage. Keep the conversation light and fun.

An Easy Solution to Meet New People

If you want to find your significant other but don’t know where to start – or if you tried other methods, and they didn’t work – speed dating can be an excellent solution. You have a whole night of interesting conversations, meeting new people, and learning new things. Of course, it has its challenges – but the basic rules are not very hard to follow, and meeting people doesn’t have to be complicated.

However, don’t look forward to every speed dating event as a possibility to meet your future partner. Even if you experience no spark during the first or any other event, it’s still one of the best ways to meet people, find new friends, and have fun.

(Beata Hardzei) 

David Smith