A toxic human may apologize to you for something they did, but you can rest assured that it won’t be genuine. If anything, they are apologizing to you because they have an agenda – to trick you or manipulate you into doing what they want.
A toxic person never apologizes. They never admit that they have done anything wrong. Because in their world – they are the perfect ones. And if you dare to blame them about something, they will quickly blame someone else, it will always be their parent’s fault, or your fault, or their ex’s fault.
A toxic human always blames other people for their own mistakes because they are not mature to admit they are wrong and correct their behavior. They can’t take responsibility for their actions. They constantly feel that it is because of other people or the circumstances that lead them to take the wrong path while, in reality, they are fully responsible for their actions and decisions.
If they hurt you, you will never receive the apology you deserve from them. For instance, if you happen to catch them cheating, they will immediately come up with a bunch of excuses like the other person has thrown themselves at them or how they cheated because you weren’t fulfilling their sexual fantasies. Either way, they will make you the guilty one.
If you are brave enough to call them out on their bullshit, they will start listing all the times they were nice to you and you will feel like you are being ungrateful and inconsiderate.
A toxic human will never admit they have made a mistake. They will never stop and think about what they have done. And it doesn’t matter how much you care about them, it doesn’t matter how well you treat them – you will always feel like you are losing with them.
You can calmly try to explain to them or you can raise your voice at them – it won’t make any difference. They will design the reality that suits them the most. And in the end, you will be the one who looks crazy to the outside world. You will be the one who is wrong, and not them.
When you are involved with a toxic human, the best thing you can do for yourself is walk away. Because whatever you do, you cannot make them change their toxic ways. Toxic humans only think about themselves. They never try to see the other person’s point of view.