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8 Reasons Why Your Big Sister Is Your Best Friend And A True Soulmate

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Shout out to our biggest supporters, craziest cheerleaders, best friends, greatest critics and the bravest warriors. Their royal highness, the sisters.

Sisters are the greatest gift we have in our lives. They drive us crazy, make us cry, fight with us over a hoodie, shout at us, annoy us, but sisters are the only ones who love us more than anything in the world.

A sister’s love cannot be replaced.

So, if you too have a big sis, here are 8 reasons why she’s the most important person and the biggest soulmate in your life:

1. SHE’S KNOWS YOUR DEEPEST DESIRES AND DARKEST FEARS

A sister knows what your heart carries. She knows your darkest fears, supports your biggest goals, understands your silliest dreams, comforts your perplexing paranoias, protects your pure soul and guards your vulnerable heart. 

2. SHE’S YOUR BEST FRIEND

She’s there from day one, and she’ll stay beside you until forever. She is the only one who has whiteness the most important days and the saddest phases of your life.

She knows you more than you know yourself. She’s your best friend and your only soulmate.

3. YOU SHARE THE SAME ROOM

You’ve shared your whole life together. You’ve spent many sleepless nights contemplating life and obsessing about your issues. So many times, she has held your head while you cried yourself to sleep. So many times, you’ve slept next to her whenever she was terrified by her nightmares. You are inseparable.

4. SHE’S YOUR WINGMAN WHEN IT COMES TO DEALING WITH THE PARENTS

Whenever something is going on between you and your parents, she’s there to take your side and stand up for you. As a bigger sister, with a much bigger experience in dealing with the parents, she knows exactly what to say or do in order to get away with whatever you two are in. She’s like your own experienced and skillful wingman.

5. SHE’S BLUNT AND RUDE, BUT SHE’LL ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH

A friend will be afraid to tell you the truth, so they will sugar-coat it with kind and decent words. But, a sister won’t have a problem to slap you in the face with the cold, brutal truth. The perfect reality check you can ever ask for will always come from your sister.

6. SHE’S THE PERFECT DATE

She’s the one who’ll always be up for a quick stroll in the park or a shopping spree in the local mall. She’s the one who’ll listen to your 2 am stories, the one who’ll dress up and take you to that awesome party on Friday night.

She’s the one who will talk to you about “the birds and the bees”, she’s the one who’ll watch your guilty pleasure movies with you. She’s the perfect date. Because she’s your big sis.

7. SHE’S YOUR FREE THERAPIST

And somehow, she has always something smart and wise to say. It’s amazing how she has all the solutions to your problems. Whatever happens, however shitty and miserable you feel, she’s always there to make it all go away and convince you that everything is going to work out in the end.

8. SHE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU, NO MATTER WHAT

A sister is a partner in crime. So, no matter what happened, she’ll always be there to hold your hand, to be your shoulder to cry on, to wipe your tears and let you know that she has your back.

If you have a sister, make sure to tag her and let her know how much she means to you.

Here’s to our sisters! They make our lives easier, our hearts softer and our souls complete.

Stephanie Reeds