Don’t Tell Me I Am Pretty – Tell Me I Am Strong Enough To Make A Difference

Don’t tell me I am beautiful. I’ve heard that word many times over and over before. It is a word that gets thrown around too loosely in today’s world. Men whisper it to so many women. They throw it at them like a rock. And they expect them to say thank you for it.  Tell me I am smart. Give me something that has depth.

Don’t tell me I am pretty. I don’t need you to validate my looks. I know what I look like. I am a flawed, imperfect human being and I love myself with all of my quirks. Tell me I am fierce and brave. Tell me that you believe in me. In my will to fight for what I believe in. In my strength to never give up on the things that make my heart smile.

Don’t tell me I’m beautiful. That is a word that always floats on the surface and never dives to reach the depths of my heart. Tell me that I am special. Tell me that my smile makes you fall in love with me. That my eyes remind you of something. That you feel different around me. Like you know me from a previous life.

Don’t tell me I am pretty. Tell me I am strong. Tell me that I am a fighter. A warrior. Remind me how much I’ve survived. Remind me what I’ve been through to become the person I am today. Tell me I inspire you. Tell me my bones are made of steel and my body has a thick skin. Tell me that I can do everything that I set my mind to.

Don’t tell me I am beautiful. Tell me I am a fragile human being who has a lot of love to give. Let me know that my love is the only thing that you desperately wish for. Tell me that I am more than a body. More than just a face. More than just a human. Tell me that I am the other half of your soul.

Don’t tell me I’m pretty. I am much more than just my appearance. I am much more than the clothes I wear. Much more than the makeup on my face. Much more than the things I post on social media. Much more than what I say. Much more than you think I am.

Don’t tell me I am beautiful.

I couldn’t care less about the superficial.

Tell me I am strong enough to change the world.

Tell me my soul is made of wildfire.

Tell me my claws are sharp enough to protect myself.

Tell me I inspire you to change yourself.

Tell me there’s more to me than meets the eye.

Tell me I am more than I believe myself to be.

Mary Wright

Written by Mary Wright

Mary Wright writes from the heart, unafraid to dive into the deepest human emotions. Her essays and short stories transform ordinary moments into literature that lingers.

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