1. DON’T COME HOME LATE WITHOUT FIRST LETTING HER KNOW
It takes one text to let her know that you’ll be late to calm her down. Don’t be someone who can’t bother to pick up the phone and tell your significant other your whereabouts. Don’t make her worry and lose sleep. Don’t let her assume the worst. Don’t.
2. DON’T GET ANGRY AT HER FOR BEING CAUTIOUS
Don’t get mad at her for keeping her walls high. It will take a while for a woman with trust issues to let her walls down and open up to you. Be patient. Understand that her being cautious has nothing to do with you and everything to do with those who broke her heart before.
3. DON’T LIE TO HER
Even about small things. Always be honest with her regardless of how hard the truth is. Because this woman already has difficulty trusting people. So, if she discovers you’ve lied to her – she will never believe you again.
4. DON’T DODGE HER QUESTIONS
If you are on the phone with someone and after you hung up, she asks you who you were talking to – answer her. Don’t leave her wondering. Don’t leave her guessing. If you go out with your friends and she asks you who was there – tell her the truth. You don’t need to give her all the details but just answer her question.
5. DON’T GIVE HER A REASON TO DOUBT YOU
Show up when she is expecting you to show up. Don’t leave her hanging. Let your actions always match your words. Prove to her that you are a trustworthy person.
6. DON’T JOKE ABOUT CHEATING
Listening to your significant other joking about cheating with other women is not funny. Nor it is clever. The only thing it will do is it will make your woman worry whether there is any truth hidden behind the jokes. Her insecurity will come to the surface and she will start wondering if your ‘innocent’ jokes are really that innocent.
7. DON’T FLIRT WITH OTHER WOMEN
You may think it is harmless, but your woman doesn’t think the same. If you love and respect her, you should be careful to not hurt her feelings. Don’t flirt with other women if you want to remain a loyal and faithful gentleman in her eyes.
8. DON’T CHEAT ON HER
This is the worst thing you could ever do to her. She will never forgive you for it and you’ll lose her forever.