Anxiety is painful. It is fighting with your own conscience. It’s a struggle to remain normal and calm in a world full of stressors.
It’s literally a minefield. A Russian roulette. It’s being too afraid to make the next move because it might blow you to pieces, but still doing it.
Anxiety is not just a bad day. These people face their worst demons and they suffer.
However, if you are lucky enough to meet an emotional girl who possesses a beautiful but loud and anxious mind, you should know that she’s not an ordinary person.
She’s a special kind of human. Even though she struggles to deal with heir perplexing mind, she has a big and generous heart.
She can love madly and care deeply, but all she needs is a person who would be capable of understanding her pain. Someone who won’t judge, someone who would support her.
So, if you know this girl, most importantly, if you love this girl, please don’t push her. Be patient and kind to her, because believe me there are times when even she can’t explain her madness.
Here’s everything you need to know about her:
1. HER ANXIETY WILL SOMETIMES MAKE HER SOUND MEAN AND RUDE
There will be times when her anxiety will force her to act like someone who doesn’t give a damn about anything. She’ll have a panic attack and turn into a person you feel like you don’t know.
But, it is important to understand that there will be things she won’t be able to control. In these moments, try to reach her and let her know that the pain she’s feeling is just temporary. Show her that she’s so much more than her anxiety.
It will mean the world to her.
2. YET, SHE’S FRAGILE LIKE A DANDELION IN THE WIND
Even though she comes out all bitchy, rude and inconsiderate of people’s feelings, she’s fragile. She’s a soft rose petal on freezing, cold December morning.
She has a peculiar and highly perceptive nature, so don’t blame her when she takes everything too seriously. You have to realize that she is an extremely complex state of mind.
3. SHE GETS EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO PEOPLE TOO EASILY
And since she’s a very fragile and emotional human being, she tends to get attached pretty easily. That’s exactly why most of the time she ended up betrayed.
She’s a woman with a heart full of love. She needs someone she can trust. So, make sure to let her know you’ll always be there, and then stick to that promise.
4. SHE TENDS TO WORRY A LOT
It’s a routine that sums up her entire life. She worries about work, she worries about people’s opinions, she worries about you. Her mind is like a crazy rollercoaster that never stops.
You should know that there will be times when she needs you to reassure you. She might seem like a high-maintenance, but try to understand her. She has madness inside of her that not all of us would perceive.
5. YOU MIGHT NOT SEE IT, BUT SHE’S TERRIFIED
No matter how perfect she is to you, she’ll always see herself as a person who’ll never be good enough for you. You might not see it now, but she’s terrified.
Her insecurities torture her mind and force her to think you’ll eventually replace her and leave her heart shattered to pieces.
Her fears are usually irrational, but her paranoias are her scariest nightmares.
6. SHE FEELS EVERYTHING TOO DEEPLY
People struggling with a loud and perplexing mind are people who tend to feel everything too deeply. They just can’t help it.
So, please, don’t hurt her. Don’t be rude to her. Don’t judge her. Just try to embrace her madness. She needs you.
7. SHE LIVES BY HER OWN RULES
A girl with an anxious mind and a strong heart can also be pretty stubborn. She’ll always try to do things her own way, even if her mind is sometimes too much to handle.
8. BUT WHEN SHE FINALLY FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOU, SHE’LL LOVE YOU FOREVER
She will be stubborn, sometimes she’ll be rude, maybe even insecure, but when she finally falls in love with you, she’ll love you unconditionally.
When she finally trusts you enough to open up her heart, she’ll give you everything.
She’s a woman who wears her heart on her sleeve. You make sure to take good care of it.
Image:Alexander Shark
