Most of the people out there won’t agree. Some would even try to deny the existence of conscious, pure, vulnerable individuals who believe in love. And others would make me crazy for describing something so unattainable and stupid for living in such a silly fantasy.
But, the thing is, my reality is completely different. And while I understand the skepticism and indifference most people nurture, I have to say that I’m truly grateful to have found the person who showed me what real love feels like.
He broke all my stereotypes about men being the insensitive gender and proved to me that genuine and uncensored love can be found in the strangest of places, especially when you least expect it.
Believe me, real men exist.
So, to all of you lovers, broken souls, enthusiasts, pessimists, here are 8 meaningful things a real man only does once he finds his biggest love, the woman of his dreams, his one true soulmate:
1. HE GENUINELY CARES ABOUT MAKING YOU HAPPY
When a man falls in love with you, there are no limits. Once he finds his one true person, the greatest love of his life, the woman of his dreams he will do anything in his power to make her happy.
A man in love is a man who genuinely cares about his woman and respects her own needs as if it were his own.
2. HE HAS NO PROBLEM SHOWING HIS MOST VULNERABLE SIDE
Because when a man loves, he loves passionately, from the very bottom of his heart. He doesn’t hesitate to open his heart to the woman he loves. Instead, he’s more than happy to lay his heart in front of the love of his life. No inhibitions, no fears, no lies, no nothing.
3. HE FIGHTS FOR YOUR LOVE
There’s nothing in this world more powerful than a man’s love for his woman. He is lucky to have you in his life, and he’ll do whatever it takes to keep you safe and warm in his own loving embrace.
A man in love will walk the extra mile, make sacrifices, get out of his way if he wants the relationship to work. Any obstacle along the way will only make him stronger and more determined to protect what he has.
4. HE IS PROUD OF YOUR SUCCESS
A man who loves you more than anything in the world will be proud of your achievements and will support you every step of the way. He won’t be intimidated by your work, instead, he’ll be your number one fan and cheerleader.
5. HE COMMITS TO THE RELATIONSHIP
Most importantly, when a man loves you from the very depths of his heart, he’ll commit to the relationship with all of his heart, soul, and energy. A real man knows that in order for something to work, both sides need to invest their love and emotions into the relationship.
There’s no other way around. In love, it’s either all or nothing.
6. HE’S MORE THAN HAPPY TO INVOLVE YOU IN EVERY PART OF HIS LIFE
A man who unconditionally cares about you and loves you passionately will enjoy including you in every part of his life. Whether it’s his hobbies, his work, his deepest desires or greatest goals, most terrifying nightmares, once he finds you, he won’t be able to imagine his life without you.
Through thick and thin, in sickness and in health, he’ll be right there beside you reminding you that love can cure everything.
7. HE LISTENS TO YOU
Your opinion matters the most to him. That’s why a man who is deeply, madly and genuinely in love with you will listen to every word you have to say.
He knows that true love is based only on mutual understanding and open communication. It’s the only way to maintain a successful and healthy bond with someone.
8. HE UNDERSTANDS THE IMPORTANCE OF THOSE LITTLE THINGS
A hug from behind, a random kiss on the cheek, carefully picked flowers from his mom’s garden, an unexpected “I love you”, a gentle, after work massage, cinema night to your fave movie, cozy date nights in the park, midnight strolls and everything in between.
Life is what happens to us while we’re busy making big plans. In a nutshell – life is all of these beautiful, little things that mean the world to us. And a man who loves you will understand the importance of these moments.