Lying and cheating are one of the biggest vices of our century. But, if there’s anything worse we humans enjoy doing, that is definitely judging and creating stereotypes.
One of the most common statements I personally can’t stand to hear is “All men cheat”. It is usually said by a person who had a life full of bad experiences with players – conniving individuals who turned up to be utter douchebags.
However, just because these people are the opposite gender (stronger gender – another generalization), that doesn’t necessarily mean that all men cheat.
Therefore, I think we should all be a bit careful with our fast tongues and blanket statements because guess what – Not all men are the same.
There are beautiful, honest and kind-hearted human beings who would never dare to do such thing because they value the meaning of love. They value honesty. They care about loyalty. Most importantly, they respect and treat every human being equally.
So, here are 8 reasons why good men never cheat:
1. A GOOD MAN APPRECIATES EVERYTHING HE HAS
A real man will never cheat on his woman because he truly appreciates the gift of eternal and genuine love in his life. He knows how hard it is to find a person who would be everything they need and more.
So, when he finally finds his person, he’ll make sure to keep the fire burning and cherish the love he has, for all eternity.
2. A GOOD MAN IS MUCH MORE THEN HIS INSTINCTIVE URGES
People usually say that men can’t control their primal urges, and that’s the reason why they actually cheat. But, I like to think that those people don’t really have a problem with their self-control, but rather with their value system.
Yes, both monogamy and polygamy are choices we need to make.
But, a good man will never let his urges define him. He has evolved past those instinctive needs and realized that a sexual bond with a person is much deeper and important than some people think.
3. A REAL MAN VALUES TRUE LOVE, NOT A ONE-NIGHT-STAND
A real, honest and mature men value pure love, not a one-time thing. They find pleasure in committing in loving relationships and dedicating themselves to a woman who means the world to them.
They would choose true love over a one-night-stand any day of the week.
4. A REAL MAN RESPECTS AND LOVES THE WOMAN IN HIS LIFE
And if cheating isn’t the greatest disrespect of a person’s emotions, I don’t know what is. It is rude, it’s inconsiderate and probably the biggest disappointment in life.
A good man would never dare to destroy the relationship by engaging in meaningless flings. He would never lie to the woman he loves because he wouldn’t let anything or anyone ever harm her.
5. A GOOD MAN HAS INTEGRITY
He has a strong conscience, morals, and a well-established value system. And you know how it goes… The real mark of a genuine man is in doing the right thing when no one is watching. That is the core of real integrity.
He would never cheat on his woman, not only because he respects her, but also because he respects his life and his principles. Cheating is for people who don’t have the guts to be sincere and upfront about their intentions.
6. A GOOD MAN DOESN’T NEED TO PROVE HIS MASCULINITY
…By adding notches to his bedpost. He doesn’t need to trick people and play with their feelings in order to validate his manhood. He doesn’t need to “get all the girls” to prove his self-worth or manifest his masculinity.
A real man would never fall for those cheap thrills. He knows exactly who he is and what he wants.
7. A REAL MAN NEVER CHOOSES THE EASIER WAY OUT, HE FIGHTS THE OBSTACLES INSTEAD
Every relationship will eventually face some hardships. And some people will use these difficulties to take the easy way out. They’ll cheat and then they’ll go on the offensive and blame their partners for doing that.
However, a good man will fight for the things he loves. He will stand up, face every difficulty along the way and deal with them like a grown, mature person.
8. A REAL MAN WILL NEVER TURN HIS BACK ON HIS PARTNER
Once you find this man, he’ll make sure to love you and remain loyal to the grave. Because a relationship is not only romance, it is also a friendship. It’s two bodies sharing one soul. It’s two people supporting each other’s dreams and goals.
A good man will never dare betray a lover’s trust, let alone a best friend.
Image:Robert Marcillas Ronda