Relationships, no matter how committed, honest and loving, sometimes have the power to make us doubt and question even the most unthinkable things. For you see, as human beings who possess a fragile heart and a mess of a mind, we never stop wondering.
As a result, there are certain questions that even the happiest person out there would secretly want to ask their partner.
Here are the most common dilemmas most women have:
1. “DO YOU REALLY LOVE ME?”
Sometimes, all a woman needs is to feel truly loved and wanted by her partner. No matter how loving and caring her partner is, she still wants to hear him utter those 3 amazing words that make her heart skips a beat. “I love you.”
2. “BUT, HOW MUCH DO YOU LOVE ME?”
But then the next question is more than obvious.
Do you love her more than you love spending time at the bar? Do you love her more than your hobby? How much do you love her?
Women need to know the intensity of your emotions. They need to be reassured that they’re not wasting their time on some immature guy, but that they’ve finally found someone they could rely on.
3. “WOULD YOU STILL CHOOSE ME EVEN IF THE WHOLE WORLD TOLD YOU I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU?”
Be honest. You say you love her more than words can say. You say you’re taken by the real beauty her heart carries. You say you adore her flaws and imperfections. But, tell me, if your whole family was against her and if the whole wide world didn’t like her, would you still choose her?
These are questions that go through every woman’s mind. Do you have the answer?
4. “WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF ME?”
Every woman who is madly in love with her man likes to know what his friends and close family think of her. She knows how important they all are to him, therefore it is only natural for her to want to leave a good impression and eventually become a part of that group.
5. “HOW SERIOUS HAVE YOU BEEN WITH YOUR EXES?”
But the one thing that worries most of the women out there is your past experiences and your previous relationships. It’s not that she’s jealous or afraid that she might lose you. The thing is, she wants to know more about you. She wants to put herself in your shoes and understand the reasons for your previous love choices, as well as the reasons for your unfortunate experiences. She wants to get to know the real you, up close and personal.
6. “DO YOU FIND OTHER WOMEN MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN ME?”
No matter how gorgeous a woman is or how comfortable she’s with herself, she will always wonder whether you find other women more attractive than her. Your mind and your deepest thoughts will always be a mystery to her.
Even though it sounds childish, this question is something she will secretly want to ask her partner.
7. “DO YOU FIND YOUR EX GIRLFRIENDS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN ME?”
More importantly, do you ever miss those things you had with them? A woman’s mind can wander to places you never even thought existed. Especially when she is already madly and deeply in love with the man in her life.
8. “DO YOU SEE A FUTURE WITH ME?”
Last but not least, every woman wants to know where she is headed in life. She dreams of finding someone who would spend his lifetime by her side, accept her for who she is and love her unconditionally. If you cannot do that for her and promise her a future together, then you better let her know of your intentions.
Stringing her along won’t do you any good.