Alpha women are fearless. The live life following their own set of rules. They radiate independence in every sense of the word. To them, the world is nothing but a big field full of opportunities. And they are not afraid to challenge it!
However, considering that we live in a society where the general population still believes that women are the weaker, more fragile sex, there are people out there who are truly intimidated by these women’s confidence.
That kind of power and determination is just too much for some people to handle.
So, you can bet that when it comes to the matters of love, an alpha female will look for a partner who would be 100% compatible with her. An equal. A person who wouldn’t discourage her from becoming better, but a someone who would celebrate her success as if it was their own.
When it comes to maintaining a strong, healthy and prosperous relationship, alpha women will not settle for anything less than the real deal.
Here are 8 things every independent, I-can-do-it woman looks for in a relationship:
1. SHE NEEDS TO BE CHALLENGED
An alpha woman needs someone who would constantly challenge her to grow and achieve even the most impossible. Someone who would the breeze to her fire, but at the same time keep her safe on the ground.
2. SHE NEEDS UNCONDITIONAL TRUST
Trust is something sacred. It should be respected, nurtured and well taken care of. That is why, an alpha, independent woman would need a man who will promise to be her faithful partner in crime. Someone who won’t stick a knife in her back, but a person who would carry her secrets for all eternity.
3. SHE DEMANDS RESPECT
A woman of this kind knows her worth. She knows exactly who she is and what she wants from life. So, when it comes to the matters of the heart, she looks for a partner who would respect her and her decisions.
But, also someone who would always remain sincere. A person who would be there to always tell her the truth.
4. SHE NEEDS HER PERSONAL SPACE
If you’ve met this woman, you probably know that she’s willing to do anything to reach her goals and fulfill her long-lasting dreams. In fact, she won’t let any obstacle along the way discourage her.
However, it is important to know that in her quest for self-knowledge and success, she will need her independence. Her personal space is something that could never be compromised.
5. AND SOMEONE WHO WILL BE ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH HER
She’s a wild woman. She runs with the wind and flies with the Falcons. You can never tame her. You can either join her madness and love her for who she is, or let her fight her own battle.
6. SHE NEEDS EQUALITY
A person who would treat her like an equal. A man who won’t allow being governed by his loud ego, but a man who would only sing the songs of his heart.
An alpha woman would never allow to baby her own partner. She needs someone who will be at the same level of consciousness and maturity as her.
7. SHE NEEDS AN OPEN-MINDED PARTNER
More than anything, an independent and tough-minded woman needs a person who would understand her inexhaustible thirst for knowledge and wisdom. Her love for exploring herself and the world around her.
She needs someone who would be capable of leaving all of his inhibitions at the door and engage in a never-ending, stimulating, intellectual conversation. Someone who would be willing to learn the art of mind sex.
8. SHE NEEDS SOMEONE WHO WILL FACE THEM WHEN NECESSARY
And yes, she may be a strong, challenging woman who knows exactly where she’s going in life, but trust me… There will be times when she’ll need someone who wouldn’t be afraid to call out on her bulls*it.
After all, she’s just a human. No matter how self-sufficient she is, she needs a man who will remind her that no one is perfect. Someone who would accept her just the way she is, but also make her aware of her mistakes and help her get back on track when she’s lost.
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