What in your opinion is the best quality in a man?
What do you search for?
Some go for a charming personality, good looks, and attractiveness, while others consider intelligence and loyalty to be the best characteristics a man has. It’s a truly subjective matter. But, regardless of the general opinions, there are certain things that will always remain classy.
These specific qualities are very rare nowadays. And because of that, I believe it’s very important for us to nurture, cherish and respect them.
Here are the marks of a truly desirable man.
Ladies, if you’ve already found your perfect man, you’re blessed!
1. A HIGHLY DESIRABLE MAN KNOWS HOW TO LISTEN
Many men assume that listening is just a passive action that requires no effort whatsoever. But, even though listening looks like idly and quietly sitting without uttering a word, it’s much more than that.
And these men know that. Men with such exceptional qualities know that listening to your partner is the most important thing you could do for them. The fact that you devoted your time and energy on them says that you care. And that if you ask me, is very attractive.
2. A HIGHLY DESIRABLE MAN IS WELL-SPOKEN
He knows how to present himself. He knows exactly how to manifest his emotions, portray his feelings, reveal his intentions and show his opinions. Not only he is most likely to be understood, he’s actually a truly enjoyable and fun person to talk to.
3. A HIGHLY DESIRABLE MAN HAS A KIND HEART
He possesses a heart of gold. A desirable man is kind to every living being, not because of who they are. But, because of who he is. Because of what his heart carries. Every person around him is equally important. Class, social or relationship status, age, ethnicity or gender have nothing to do with his behavior towards people.
4. A HIGHLY DESIRABLE MAN IS OPEN-MINDED
His mind is open, his horizons are broad. He’s an ambitious, unbiased and open to new ideas. That is why he’s completely aware of the fact that whether we like or not, the world is shifting. The tides are turning. The moon is changing.
5. A HIGHLY DESIRABLE MAN IS COMPASSIONATE
To have an empathic soul means to be able to deeply connect with another human being. It’s feeling their sorrow as well as their joy. It’s helping them overcome the pain. It’s the remarkable power to open your heart and let your energy flow through another man’s heart. It’s something only the bravest, kindest people have.
6. A HIGHLY DESIRABLE MAN KNOWS EXACTLY WHO HE IS
More importantly, a desirable man knows exactly what he wants from life. He’s aware of his own persona and he firmly stands his ground. He would never abandon his beliefs or opinions just because someone forced him to do so.
7. A HIGHLY DESIRABLE MAN HAS REAL AMBITIONS AND BIG GOALS
Let’s face it. A man who knows what he wants and goes for it is a man who radiates with a highly irresistible energy. This is the kind of man every woman looks for. Because let’s be clear… no one wants a dull couch potato who can’t bother to make plans for the future. We need action, not words!
8. A HIGHLY DESIRABLE MAN IS AN EQUAL PART OF THE RELATIONSHIP
He has no problem being both ‘the driver’ and ‘the passenger’ in the relationship. A man who is confident with himself has no problem with sharing his life with another person. Because he knows that relationships are all about equality and compromises.
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