Admit it. No matter how ignorant we choose to be when it comes to following the signs our bodies give us, deep inside we are well aware that our physical bodies have a way of reaching out to us.
The thing is, not all of us bother to really listen. Okay, some may not be so fluent in their language, but there are people who actually ignore these desperate cries for help.
Paying closer attention to what your body is saying and then accepting those emotional, physical and mental changes will help you lead a better and healthier life. Believe me, you owe this to yourself.
Here are 7 powerful ways your body tells you that you’re with a wrong guy:
1. YOU DON’T SMILE ANYMORE
When you’re truly in love with someone, there’s not a thing in the world that can erase your smile. There’s not a thing that can make you angry or impatient, because you are filled with a vast amount of love. You’re a ray of sunshine.
So, when start feeling down around your partner, this might be a sign that something isn’t right. You might not be happy with this person, no matter how much you convince yourself of the opposite.
2. YOUR SELF-ESTEEM IS AT ITS LOWEST
You shouldn’t have to count on your partner to enrich your life, but if you feel that this person fills you with doubts, robs you of your self-confidence and makes you insecure about yourself, it is obvious. Your body is sending you signals that you shouldn’t ignore. If you feel that you’ve been taken for granted, you should stop that chain of abuse.
3. YOU FEEL EMOTIONALLY EXHAUSTED
I know that no relationship is perfect. We can try to make it look like a fairytale all we want, but at the end of the day, we’re all humans who sometimes make terrible mistakes. However, no matter how flawed relationships are, they should never make you feel emotionally drained and physically exhausted. If this is happening to you, you better wake up and take immediate action.
4. YOUR DON’T PRIORITIZE YOUR NEEDS
Unconditional love means loving someone so much that you have no trouble putting them first on your priority list. And to me, that is the most beautiful thing you will ever experience.
However, there’s a big difference between loving someone unconditionally and losing your sense of self in an attempt to please them. If you feel that you lack the time and energy to focus on yourself and your needs, you need to seriously analyze your relationship. If you are suffering in order to make them happy, that is not love.
5. YOU ARE IN DENIAL
If you really have to convince yourself that everything is good when your body and your soul are sending your signs that it clearly isn’t, what more can I say… You are in denial. Stop living in the illusion that your relationship is okay. Stop making excuses about his behavior. Accept the reality, no matter how painful it is.
6. YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE STUCK IN A BORING, EVERYDAY ROUTINE
Relationships shouldn’t make you feel like you’re completing a chore. They should be your source of joy and happiness. If you feel like you’re stuck in a boring, repetitive pattern, there’s clearly not enough love between the two of you.
7. YOUR PARTNER ANNOYS YOU
Most importantly, if your body sends you certain signals like having the urge to fight with your partner, blaming them for everything or avoiding them completely, then you really need to stop and rethink where you’re headed. Is there anything left in this relationship that makes you feel good about it? What do you feel when you look at your partner?
Answering these questions will be hard, but it will help you reveal the truth that you’ve been avoiding for a very long time. Don’t be afraid. Do it for yourself.