A relationship is the most sacred institution that should be handled, nurtured and shared with the utmost respect and attention. It is an inexplicable, deep bond between two people who gave their words to cherish and love themselves unconditionally.
Unfortunately, not all of us out there share this exact opinion. I may be a genuine believer in true, everlasting love, but that doesn’t mean that the general population out there thinks and behaves the same.
There are people who refuse to settle for monogamy, people who hate their partners, but are too afraid to leave, people who feel like doing it, people who desperately need something they can’t find in their partner, people who are simply disrespectful…
And, so they cheat.
Cheating, of course, can be emotional, physical or in the worst-case scenario, both. And no matter how well hidden, this is something that can be easily noticed and felt.
So, if you’ve felt somewhat lost and confused lately, and you can’t help but overthink the suspicion that your partner might be doing something behind your back, be brave and reveal the truth.
I’m not saying that it would be easy, but hearing the truth will always be better than being comfortable with a lie.
Here are 7 ways to catch someone cheating:
1. PAY A CLOSE ATTENTION TO THEIR BEHAVIOR
Have you noticed a change in your partner’s behavior? Is he coming home later than usual? Is he acting stranger than usual?
Sometimes the subtlest signs like him changing a new cologne, feeling the distance between you two, can give you the most detailed information you need to know.
Follow the signs.
2. DROP BY AT WORK UNANNOUNCED
If you are real suspicions of their behavior and you also have a reason to doubt them, try dropping by their workplace completely unannounced.
At this point, you are pretty determined that you are going to solve the mystery in your life. So, instead of calling to check up on them, just show in their office and pay attention to the expression on their face.
3. CHECK THEIR PHONE, COMPUTER
Let us be truly grateful for the rise of technology. Because, if it made it easier to cheat, it also made it easier to catch someone in the act.
So, if you feel that your partner is busy doing something else and is not paying attention to you, try checking their personal phone or computer. There has to be something that could you even the slightest clue.
4. CHECK FOR SUSPICIOUS RECEIPTS OR CARDS
And sometimes a paper trail can reveal much more than your partner’s hollow promises. Whether it’s a receipt from a hotel, a new restaurant, a ticket for a weekend getaway or in other words “an important business trip”, these things can serve as a truly reliable evidence.
5. HIRE A PERSON WHO CAN DO THAT FOR YOU
If you find nothing, but still feel that your beloved might be cheating on you, hiring someone who can help you solve your case can be a great solution to your problem. These people are professionals in their field and tend to be neutral in their opinion.
6. CREATE A FAKE PROFILE
I know it sounds crazy, but sometimes the truth can only be revealed by taking action. If you are feeling that your partner is doing something behind your back, then you should definitely take appropriate measures.
Create a fake profile and find out if they have a secret life outside of your relationship.
7. FOLLOW THEM AFTER A FIGHT
Most people who cheat tend to intentionally pick fights as a great excuse to escape the house and meet their lovers. If you’ve noticed this kind of behavior in your partner, try to face them.
If they are determined to deny everything you accused them of, but still look guilty, the next time, try to follow them.