This goes to all of the people in my life who tried to put me down, disrespect me, insult me, force me to believe that I’m worthless, fed me vicious lies, and desperately tried to make me blind to the truth.
You wanted me down, but little did you know that I’ll never succumb to your pressure. You tried to manipulate me, but that didn’t make me submissive. I wasn’t afraid to leave and abandon you, because I’m not afraid to be alone. I’m scared of ending up with the wrong person.
I know my worth and I know exactly who I am. So, if you think that I’ll settle for less than I deserve, you are terribly wrong.
I am a strong woman. I am a warrior. I fight my own battle. Because these are 6 things we’ll never ever tolerate in a relationship.
Read it and weep!
1. I WILL NEVER TOLERATE DISRESPECT
Respect is the most important thing I ask for in a relationship. And not only romantic relationships. I can’t be surrounded by people who would easily discredit my opinions, disrespect my statements or gladly change who I am.
If I get trouble, I’ll have no problem giving trouble. If you can’t bother to be a decent human being with equal respect for every person out there, I won’t stick around.
So, remember. “Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.” ― Roy T. Bennett
2. I WILL NEVER PUT UP WITH SUPERIORITY
Try to dominate me, and I’ll be out the door. What? Am I being too hard on you? Oh, you haven’t seen it all. The worst thing you can do to a strong, empowering and independent woman is to try to make her your slave.
She won’t give in. She won’t accept your superiority. She is an equal human being, and she’ll be treated like one. If not by you, then by someone else. Someone who will recognize her worth and love her for who she is.
3. I WILL NEVER ALLOW YOU TO MANIPULATE ME
I know my worth. I am aware of what I need in life. And believe me when I say that I will cross oceans if I need to, I will be alone, but I won’t stop until I find genuine love.
I will never let you manipulate me. I’d rather die than succumb to your pressure.
4. I WILL NEVER TOLERATE YOUR ARROGANT BEHAVIOR
Because I am a person who stands her ground. I am a woman with opinions, beliefs, and values, so don’t you even think for a minute that your arrogant, selfish and possessive behavior will ever change them. If you don’t respect me enough to listen to my words, you don’t deserve to be a part of me.
5. I WILL NEVER SETTLE FOR A PERSON WHO DOESN’T SUPPORT MY GOALS
I have wild dreams and big goals. And I’ve worked pretty hard to make them come true. So, if you think that putting me down instead of lifting me up is going to make me want you or fear you, you are delusional.
I will do whatever I need to pursue them. Your negativity, jealousy and disrespect will be something I’ll never tolerate in a relationship.
6. I WILL NEVER TOLERATE A PERSON WHO WON’T EXPRESS HIS FEELINGS
I speak as a woman who won’t accept to settle for something worthwhile. I speak as a woman will never agree to hold on to a man who is too afraid to love. Because when I love, I do it from the very bottom of my heart. So, I expect you to do the same for me.
If you love me, you better show it. If you don’t, leave out the door and let me be.