I believe that our relationships with people are reflections of our soul. We search for someone with similar quirks, and traits as ours. Someone who could complement our mind, body, and soul.
A special someone who wouldn’t only understand our inner voice, but also listen to it. Speak with it on a deeper level.
However, there are certain, essential, must-have characteristics you should always look for in a person. The essential traits of a genuine and pure-hearted man. The things we all deserve to feel on this wondrous journey called life.
But, having in mind that nowadays it’s extremely rare to find a person who possesses such genuine nature, staying single until you find that being is sometimes the best decision you could make.
Because you know what they say. At the end, who you spend time with, is who you become. Make sure to make a wise choice.
Here are 15 things a man does that shows he might be just the one for you:
1. HE ENJOYS SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY
I know, it is not the first thing a person in a relationship should do.
But, if you find a guy who would rather meet your family instead of running for the hills, you got yourself a keeper.
2. HE IS NEVER AFRAID TO SHOW AFFECTION IN PUBLIC
A true gentleman, and a person who truly appreciates you will have no problem kissing you or holding your hand in public. Make sure to find this guy.
I’m sorry, but nobody wants a coward with commitment issues. Either love like you mean it, or don’t do it at all!
3. HE ACCEPTS AND LOVES YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE HE KNOWS HOW MUCH IT MEANS TO YOU
Find yourself a guy who’ll accept and embrace your close circle of friends. Find yourself a warm-hearted man who’ll respect the people who mean the world to you. Find yourself a person who understands the importance of it.
4. HE STAYED WITH YOU THROUGH THICK AND THIN
I hope you find someone who’ll be there whenever things get though. A person who would have the courage to stay beside you and face together all the obstacles along the way.
A person who would have the strength to pick you up whenever you feel weak. The one who could show you the way and inspire you to just keep moving.
5. HE STANDS UP FOR YOU
When a person feels the need to defend you from anything that might harm you, it means that he cares for you enough to risk everything to save you.
It means that he’ll do everything in his power to protect and shelter you from the cruelty in this world.
6. HE IS COMPLETELY HONEST WITH YOU
Honesty is a virtue very rare these days. So, if you find yourself a guy who feels free to undress his soul in front of you, hold on to him tight.
When it feels right, you’ll know it.
7. HE NEVER GAVE YOU ANY REASON TO DOUBT HIM
A person who loves you will never make you doubt him and everything he does. Instead, he’ll make sure to let you know exactly what he feels about you. He’ll share every secret with you.
8. HE MAKES YOU FEEL LOVED AND CHERISHED
I hope you find a man who really cares about you. I truly hope you find a person who’ll spend every hour of their life reminding you, just how much you mean to them.
I hope you fall in love with a man who will never let you fall asleep thinking you’re unwanted.
9. HE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT TO DO TO MAKE YOUR TOES CURL
Sex might not be the most important thing in the relationship, but it’s definitely a part that should always be kept spiced up.
So, if you, by any chance got your hands on a man who not only possesses most of these traits but also has the power to “get you off” in a way no man ever did, you hold on to him tight, sister!
10. HE MAKES YOU FEEL SAFE AND SECURE
When a man feels like a safe place, a shelter from this cruel world, you just know he’ll always be there to protect you.
Cherish him, love him and make sure to provide him with the same amount of stability in the relationship.
11. HE PLANS A FUTURE WITH YOU
If your man likes to discuss a possible future together, it means that he saw something in you that he must preserve. It means that he’s finally found what he was looking for and he’ll do anything to keep it safe.
12. HE ADMITS HIS MISTAKES
Find yourself a man who won’t make excuses to get out of his mess, but instead would have the decency to own up to his mistakes.
A genuine individual who would take full responsibility for his actions.
13. HE LISTENS
If you date a guy who’s always there to listen to everything you have to say, you are a lucky woman.
Communication is the core of any human bond. It is the foundation for a successful, and loving relationship.
14. HE MOTIVATES AND INSPIRES YOU TO BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF
The one who loves you with all his heart will motivate you to keep moving forward. A man who really cares about you will keep inspiring you to chase your dreams.
He’ll be there every step of the way. Picking you up. Cheering for you. Praising you.
15. HE MAKES YOU THE HAPPIEST WOMAN ALIVE
When you find that special person who fills your heart with joy and makes your eyes sparkle, believe me, you’ll feel it. And you’ll know he’s the one for you.
I know that most of you will say that all of this sounds like a fairytale. Some would say that these people/ men don’t exist. But, the truth is – they do.
The thing is, they are extremely rare. In other words, they’ve become endangered species.
And I’ve been very lucky enough to find my destined one. My person. The one who brought me my hopes and dreams back. The human who convinced me that love exists, and you actually can have it all.
And no, this is not a made-up story. This is how I truly feel. Most importantly, this is exactly what he makes me feel.