A marriage is a sacred institution between two people who love each other and are ready to devote their lives to one another. It’s something that is supposed to happen with the right person.
It’s one of the most important events in our life. And that is why it’s of great importance that we carefully choose the people in our life.
But, how do you know if he’s or he is not the one?
Simple. Every person has its own set of deal-breakers when it comes to love. But, there are certain things and behaviors that we should particularly pay attention to. So, if your potential spouse has these 13 unacceptable habits, don’t marry that person!
1. HE HATES ANIMALS
It might sound foolish, but there’s something truly disturbing in people who genuinely hate and like to hurt animals. I simply do not trust them.
How on earth could you hate a living being that means no harm to you? Believe me, I speak from my personal experience. Animal haters are cruel human beings who don’t even like humans. Stay away from them.
2. THE RELATIONSHIP RULES DON’T MEAN ANYTHING TO HIM
If the person you’re with manifests signs that he doesn’t care about your relationship and behaves like he’s single, he’s not your man. You can’t force someone to be with you, and you certainly shouldn’t. Marrying a person who doesn’t feel the same as you is a mistake.
3. HE REFUSES TO THINK OUT OF THE BOX
No. Do not condemn yourself to an isolated life. Do not condemn yourself to a life full of misery and narrow-mindedness. If the one you’re with is not willing to open his mind to new ideas, opinions and possibilities, leave.
A relationship without compromise is doomed from the start.
4. HE BREAKS ALL THE PROMISES
A person who promises you the moon and the sky and then leaves you hanging is clearly a person who wants to make a fool of you. He doesn’t care about you and he doesn’t respect you. You cannot possibly marry someone who has the nerve to do such things.
5. YOU’RE NOT HIS PRIORITY
I’m not saying that you should be the only person on his mind, but damn it, if he can’t find the time to call you or see you even for an hour, is that really a relationship?
6. HE IS CONVINCED THAT HE’S ALWAYS RIGHT
A guy who is convinced that he’s constantly right about everything needs to have a reality check, ASAP. More importantly, a guy who would rather put the blame on you instead of accepting his mistakes is someone who simply isn’t worth your time. Not to mention your love.
7. HE MAKES EXCUSES
I’m sorry, not sorry, but excuses are just a polite way to show that you simply do not care. If a guy has too many excuses instead of actually finding the time to do the certain thing, it’s probably because he is lying to you. This kind of behavior is not something you want to ignore.
8. HE FIGHTS WITH YOU
Fights are inevitable parts of the relationship. But, when your partner is doing everything to keep those fights fiery and alive, you know that’s a red flag. If you find a way to compromise now, what are you going to do when you get married?
9. HE DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO MAKE CONVERSATION
Do I even need to explain this? If your partner seems like he has nice people skills, but when it comes to talking about serious subjects like your relationship, he suddenly cuts you off without giving you space to talk, you should leave. That kind of disrespect shouldn’t be left unnoticed.
10. HE LIES
It doesn’t matter if they’re small, white lies. Being lied by your partner and your potential spouse is a red flag. It affects a person’s trust to a point where it becomes the ultimate deal-breaker.
11. HE HATER SOCIALIZING WITH YOUR FAMILY
Marriage is about starting a family. It’s maturing and realizing that life is short and needs to be spent with people who are worth the time. If your partner hates to socialize with your family or he despises his own family, how do you expect him to start his own family?
12. BEHAVES IMMATURE AND CHILDISH
It really depends on what do you consider to be immature and childish. Whether it’s a relationship, a work thing, or his general behavior, if you feel like you’re a partner is too immature, he’s not a keeper.
13. HE’S ABUSIVE
Last, but never least, a partner with an aggressive and violent nature is not someone you want to keep. Love is supposed to be tender, warm and emotional. So, if the person you’re with doesn’t know how to control his anger every time you get into a random fight, you shouldn’t marry this person.
Not now. Not in million years. So, run as far as possible and don’t look back.
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