Dear person who has clicked on this article,
I know that you’ve found someone you genuinely believe it’s meant for you, but I also know that something inside of is not quite sure whether you made the right choice. Your heart is telling you that he’s the one, but the broken pieces of your soul whisper to you “He might be just another mistake”.
It’s perfectly normal to experience feelings of doubt. But, what you need to do is pay close attention to his behavior. When a man really cares for you, he won’t hesitate to express his innermost feelings.
Here are 13 positive signs that his love for you is nothing but pure and unconditional. If your man does this, congratulations, you’ve found yourself a keeper:
1. HE SUPPORTS YOUR DREAMS
A man who truly loves you won’t feel intimidated by your big dreams and colorful visions. He won’t discourage you from achieving your goals, but rather he will support you every step of the way.
2. HE FINDS YOU BEAUTIFUL WITH OR WITHOUT MAKE UP
Believe me, the real man, the one who will love you for who you are, won’t care whether you have makeup on or not. In fact, this person will love to see your clean, natural face. He will fall in love with that part of you. Every flaw will be a reason for him to love you even harder.
3. HE DOESN’T WANT TO CHANGE YOU
A real man won’t try to change you. He will see the best in you. He will not only accept you, but he will also fall in love with the real you.
4. HE APPRECIATES YOUR PERSONAL SPACE
More importantly, a real man will never violate your boundaries. He will respect your personal space and your sacred alone time.
5. AGING DOESN’T SCARE HIM
There’s nothing more beautiful and purer than being in love with someone who looks past your flaws and loves you from the bottom of their heart. If your partner loves you just the way you are, no matter how thick, thin, old, young, wrinkled, scarred, different you are, never let him go.
6. HE LOVES EVERY IMPERFECTION AND CURVE ON YOUR BODY
When a guy loves you, he doesn’t perceive the flaws on your body. In fact, when someone falls hard for you, the real you, the flaws on your body are the part they love the most. It is what makes you different. Unique. Special.
7. HE IS YOUR SHOULDER TO CRY ON WHENEVER YOU’RE FEELING BLUE
This is one of the biggest signs that your man is truly in love with you. If he goes out of his way to help you deal with your bad day or overcome a horrible experience, it means he genuinely cares for you. Hold on to him.
8. HE DOESN’T CONTROL YOU
More importantly, a man who really loves you will never try to possess you. He will make you feel free. He will encourage you to fly, explore yourself and evolve on your own. Nowadays it’s truly rare to find someone who understands that love is real only with it gives freedom. So, if you’ve found someone like this, make sure to love him even more.
9. HE DOESN’T MIND YOUR DIFFERENT ATTITUDES AND MOOD SWINGS
No matter how much you love each other, there will always be days when you won’t be able to stand each other. If your partner doesn’t mind your occasional mood swings and your temper, and always tries to compromise in order to keep the relationship happy and healthy, you are lucky.
10. HE KNOWS HOW TO FORGIVE
We all make mistakes. And sometimes we are too hard on ourselves. Sometimes even the small, insignificant errors make us feel like we’ve failed big time. But, if you’ve found someone who knows that you’re much more than your mistakes, you, my darling are richer than you think.
11. HE HELPS YOU CARRY YOUR EMOTIONAL LOAD
This is the most beautiful way for someone to express their true feelings. The truth is we all carry a heavy emotional baggage. And what’s even more tragic is that no own really wants to help us with it.
So, when you meet someone who offers to help you with your load, it is more than clear that they want to be with you.
12. TO HIM, WEIGHT IS JUST A NUMBER
We are all aware that as time goes by, we age and the body we once had slowly changes. We start to feel different, discouraged and we’re simply not satisfied with how we look.
But, if your guy loves you for your soul without giving a damn about your size or your weight, that right there is real love. Believe me. The right one won’t judge you by your appearance. He will fall for your soul.
13. HE LISTENS TO YOU
A person who cares for your wellbeing and your growth will be there for you. A person who loves you more than words can say will carefully listen to you. If this person is your man, you have to let him know how much he means to you.