Finding out your perfect partner and the future father of your children is one of the greatest challenges in life. So, make sure to choose carefully the man with whom you are going to spend the rest of your life.
Below is a list of 12 habits that show you should never marry the guy you are dating.
1. HE BREAKS PROMISES
A forgetful mind and a small mistake here and there can be excused. However, a guy who is constantly breaking his promises is a guy who doesn’t respect you. Besides, why would you want to marry someone who constantly disappoints you?
2. HE IS NARROW-MINDED
Getting married to someone who is not open-minded is something that you shouldn’t do, even in your worst nightmares. Because spending the rest of your life with someone who stops you from doing things because he doesn’t have faith in you is terrible. You don’t need this kind of negativity and possessiveness in your life!
3. HE TREATS YOU AS AN OPTION
It is tough when one person seems to be giving more into the relationship than the other one. Relationships are about sharing, receiving, giving, and taking (as Joey said). So, if you are the only one who is always making an effort and your partner never even tries– then, I am sorry, but they don’t love you and appreciate you the way you deserve.
4. HE HATES ANIMALS
A person who hates animals can never be a good person. Full stop. If your guy hates animals and even makes you choose between him and your dog – choose your dog. Always choose your dog.
5. EXCESSIVE EXCUSES
Excuses are your guy’s way of saying that he has more important things to do and that he doesn’t care about you as much as you care about him. That’s it. And this kind of behavior should be an instant turn-off for you.
6. DOESN’T HAVE EPIPHANY MOMENTS
A guy who always thinks that he is right and never doubts himself and his decisions is a guy who needs to have a reality check. You should never marry a guy who never admits to his mistakes and doesn’t intend to change anything about him for the sake of your relationship.
7. HE LIES
Small and insignificant lies may not be seen as something that can destroy a relationship. However, lies that are told over and over again (no matter how small and unharmful they may seem) are something that can really affect the trust between partners. How can you believe someone who lies even about insignificant things?
8. HE KEEPS THE FIGHTS ALIVE
Fights can be good for the relationships. But, if the fight has no end – that is a red flag. If your man never compromises and is not willing to settle on a decision to save your relationship – you need to move away from him because he clearly doesn’t respect your opinion.
9. HE HATES HIS FAMILY
Even though parents can be annoying at times, we can’t stop loving them. A man who hates his family is a man who will never be a good husband and parent.
10. HE KILLS THE CONVERSATIONS
He is a charming talker, but when you want to tell him something that is important for you – he immediately shuts you off. With this ‘gesture’ he only shows you how little you mean to him. Don’t marry a guy that will ignore you for the rest of your life.
11. HE IS ABUSIVE
He is abusive: emotionally or psychologically. A true love is not violent. And a person who truly loves you will never treat you in this way. Run away from the violent maniac as fast as you can.
12. HE IS IMMATURE IN HIS AFFAIRS
If he is the type of guy who dismisses people from his life after a minor argument or fight – he is not the right man for you. If he cuts people off so easily, it would also be easy for him to cut you off from his life when you make a mistake.
If you are in a relationship with a man who has these habits – please, never agree to marry him! Save yourself and leave him as soon as possible.