Ladies, in this life, I believe we’ve all come across many men with a lot of different personality traits. Each and every one of us has their own unique list, their own requirements for a perfect partner, and I respect that.
But, one thing I’m sure we can all agree on is the huge difference between a man and a boy. Men are sophisticated, mature and one class apart from boys.
However, there’s a line between a man and a good, honest man. You don’t get to meet a good man that often. They are so rare nowadays, they’ve basically become endangered species.
So, the question remains. What makes a good man?
It’s more than clear you’ve finally found yourself a kind-hearted and noble man if…
1. HE INSPIRES YOU
A truly sincere and kind man will be your inspiration every step of the way. A grown, mature individual will only motivate you to keep moving forward, never the opposite.
So, if you’ve found your Prince Charming and he’s your biggest support you could ever ask for, appreciate him and hold on to him.
2. HE MAKES YOU FEEL LOVED AND BEAUTIFUL
A lot of people will say you’re beautiful, but when you find someone who makes you the most beautiful person both inside and out, that special someone is worthy of keeping.
It’s not the words he says, but rather the things he does that makes you the happiest girl alive.
3. HE WORKS HARD TO BE THE BEST VERSION OF HIMSELF
A good man will never stop working on himself. Whether it’s his job, his life or a hobby, he’ll always strive for more. More knowledge, more experience more of everything this life has to offer.
4. HE IS SINCERE
The most important trait one person must possess is the ability, to be honest. You have to agree that honesty is incredibly rare these days, and because of that, it’s truly appreciated.
A good man will never lie to you, he will never dare to betray your trust or cheat on you. Whatever it is, he’ll have the courage to say it to your face.
5. HE RESPECTS ‘THE REAL’ YOU
Most importantly a good man will fall for the real you. He will fall head over heels in love with your unique, genuine personality. With the essence of your beautiful soul.
He will not only respect your quirks and flaws, he’ll love you for them. Because let’s face it, the flaws are the best part. It’s what makes us what we truly are.
6. HE IS YOUR BIGGEST SUPPORT IN LIFE
A good man understands the importance of support in a relationship. That’s why he’ll always have your back.
He’ll be your biggest fan, most loyal partner, and devoted companion. He’ll praise your successes and celebrate your achievements. But most importantly, when failure strikes you, he’ll always be there to pick you up and motivate you to keep moving.
7. HE NEVER FORGETS THE MEANING OF THOSE ‘LITTLE THINGS’
When I say those ‘little things’, I’m not referring to ridiculously expensive gifts or 1000 red roses. Nothing of that sort. No, thank you!
Those irresistible ‘little things’ are the essential parts that make our lives beautiful and meaningful. Holding hands, opening doors, helping, expressing genuine emotions, just being there and appreciating a moment.
Simple as that. But, oh, so good.
8. YOU’RE A NO.1 PRIORITY ON HIS LIST
It certainly doesn’t mean erasing the life they had before you just, so you could be their no.1 priority.
It means making time for you despite his crazy, busy schedule. It means making sacrifices and shifting plans just, so he can see you. Even if it’s only for one hour.
9. HE STANDS UP FOR YOU
Unconditional loyalty and devotion are marks of a great man. A true, genuine person will always stand by you, no matter what happens.
Even if you’re the one to blame, he’ll never shame you in public. Instead, he’ll have the courtesy to talk to you in private.
When a kind-hearted and noble man is committed to you, it is for real. He’ll be there with you through thick and thin. Till death do you part.
10. HE TRUSTS AND LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY
Most importantly, a good man knows that trust isn’t given it is earned. And it certainly isn’t earned with a single wave of a hand.
So, he’ll work hard to earn your trust. And once he does, he’ll do anything to keep it that way.
11. HE MAKES YOU FEEL SAFE
A kind-hearted and real man will always make sure you feel safe and secure around him. You are his biggest treasure in life. Something he could never live without. He’ll never let anything, or anyone hurt you.