She was there for you. She sacrificed her happiness for you. She gave you everything and even more than you asked for. She devoted herself to making you happy. She opened her heart and undressed her soul to let you know how serious she’s about you.
But, the unconditional love and genuine respect she expected from you were never returned.
So, she decided. It was heavy on her heart, but she made her final decision. She wasn’t going to let another person control her life, even if that person was you. The man she sacrificed herself for. The only person in her life she genuinely cared for.
Here are 11 things she’s finally done dealing with because she has self-respect and a little something called STANDARDS!
1. MIXED SIGNALS
For a very long time she struggled to get her head around your perplexing personality. But, those days are over. Those sacrifices are long gone and forgotten. She’s sick of deciphering your childish hints and playing your immature games.
2. LACK OF EFFORT
She did her part. She was constantly there to call you, write to you, invite you to a movie, plan the date nights and start every conversation. But, you left her hanging. So, she made her choice. No more bullsh*t.
3. BEING IGNORED
A girl who once gave a damn about you, and ended up ignored by you, will never again bother reaching out for you. She will erase you from her memory, her phone, her Facebook, her life. And you’ll be just another inconsiderate asshole who broke her heart and shattered her hopes for love.
4. EMPTHY WORDS AND FAKE PROMISES
Believe me, she’s done expecting meaningful anything from you. So many times, you tricked her by promising her the moon and the stars. Well, she’s done believing your lies. But trust me, now she’s done forever.
All she wanted was to be your girlfriend. An equal partner in the relationship. A teammate. A fellow companion. Not a freaking babysitter who will put up with your childish tantrums and hidden intentions. She needs a man who has his life together. So, she’s done trying to change you. She’s gone. Forever.
6. BEING CONTROLLED
You know exactly what kind of a girl she was. She never let anyone control her. So, when she noticed that you want to dominate her and control every aspect of her life, she backed away.
7. UNANSWERED CALLS AND IGNORED TEXTS
She’s not going to waste her time on you anymore. Your “missed calls”, your “unseen messages” and your fake excuses will never change her mind. She’s done giving her soul to a person who doesn’t know how to cherish it.
8. ONE-NIGHT STANDS
She’s not your sex-object. She didn’t sign up for that. All she wanted was a chance to experience true love, not an open invitation to booty-calls. So, unless you’re ready to give her something worthwhile, she’s done with you.
When she asks for where is this going, she really needs an honest answer from you. She expects a mature response and open conversation about your future together. No “I don’t want to talk about it”, or “I need time”. Because she doesn’t. She wasted it all on your empty promises and now she’s done dealing with you.
10. VICIOUS LIES
She’s not going to tolerate your lies. All she wants is a person who has the guts to say something like it is. An honest and a decent man who speaks nothing but the truth. Your manipulation games are over.
11. BEING YOUR SECOND CHOICE
She’s done being your second chance. She’s done fighting for a place in your life because you made her your second option. And she’s a girl who will never settle for less than she desires. She won’t be your back-up plan. Not now. Not in a million years.
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