Look, I know that going shopping with her is probably the most boring thing for you, but it means a lot to her. You know why? Because she wants your presence there. She values your opinion and she wants you to help her choose what she needs.
Simple as that.
This may be just one of those seemingly unimportant, small things, but if it makes her smile then it is definitely worth doing. At the end of the day, there is a reason why those little gestures make a woman’s heart smile. Because there is something bigger in doing those things. There is effort. Genuine love. Care and commitment.
If you are someone who is new at this relationship thing, we’ve got you covered. These are 10 things that might not seem so important to you, but mean everything to her:
1. TAKING HER ON DATES
Having fun with your partner is not something that should stop doing after your relationship gets more serious. Going out on dates shouldn’t be a thing only when you are getting to know each other. It should be an everyday thing. That is how you keep that spark glowing.
2. REMEMBERING HER FRIEND’S NAMES
I know you think that it is not the end of the world if you forgot her friend’s names, and you are probably right. It’s not. But let’s be real. It is inconsiderate and it makes you look like you are not paying attention. That is not something you want to do if your intentions about her are real and honest. If you care, show that to her.
3. OPENLY TELLING HER HOW YOU FEEL
Communication is everything. Don’t ever take it for granted. The more open you are to her, the more she will feel comfortable to rely herself on you and the more your relationship will grow.
4. NOT CRITCIZING HER CHOICES
You may not be aware of it, but your words have a big impact on her. What you say means a lot to her. So, when you mindlessly comment on her insecurities thinking that what you say is not offensive, put yourself in her shoes. It’s not nice, isn’t it?
5. ANSWERING HER TEXTS IN TIME
It may not seem like a big deal to you, but that doesn’t mean that she should cope with it. I am not saying that you should be completely glued to your phone, but rather text her back or answer her call when she needs you. Let’s be honest. This is not a small thing; it is common courtesy.
6. NOT PRESSURING HER INTO ANYTHING
Guilt-tripping is one of the worst things that you can do to someone you love, no matter how small the issue is. The scary thing is, you may not always realize that you are doing it until you start noticing that your partner is actually changing their behavior. Be more considerate of her feelings.
7. WATCHING THAT MOVIE SHE LOVES
I know, I know… it is not that big of a deal, right? Well, it is. Do you know how hard it is to find someone who would sit next to you and agree to rewatch your favorite movie, even though they don’t find it as interesting as you do? People who are willing to do this are rare. So be that person. Do the things she loves. Show her that she is important to you.
8. COOKING HER DINNER
It’s okay to order in, but there is something magical in cooking her dinner. The food is somehow tastier, no matter how different it turns out from the original recipe. It’s all about the secret ingredients.
9. SENDING HER A SIMPLE GOOD MORNING TEXT
There is no better way to start the day. Trust me. Doing this will show her that she is always on your mind. Something that every woman in love wants to know.
10. LISTENING TO HER
This is far from a small, insignificant thing. But nowadays, the reality is different. People no longer just listen. They do it to reply… And it is heartbreaking. So, don’t be that person. Instead, try to be there for her when she needs to be heard and held. Let her know that she can rely on you.