10 Reasons Why The Longer I’m Single, The Surer I Am That I Don’t Want A Relationship

Regardless of what anyone says, single life is awesome! Sometimes a person can forget how happy and fulfilling single life is, especially when they’ve been in a relationship for a long time.

Here are 10 reasons why I prefer rolling solo.

1. I Am Having A Lot Of Fun On My Own

I’ve always been able to have fun on my own. I’ve never felt a need to have another person with me to be happy and fulfilled. I am completely happy and fulfilled on my own. I can also proudly say that I am never bored. And when I need to socialize, I have many friends and colleagues.

2. I Like The Calmness And The Simplicity

I realized that living a single life is so much easier because I can do whatever I want to do without having to navigate the ups and downs of being in a relationship. This drama-free life makes me feel calm and peaceful.

3. I Am More Productive And Focused

When I am in a relationship, I often let the emotions overrule me and I tend to always choose spending time with my partner instead of focusing on my work or doing the important things for me. Because I tend to forget about me and my needs and focus on my partner’s instead, being single gets me back on track to improve my life.

4. I Like Exploring New Things And Going On Adventures

There is nothing better than traveling alone and exploring new things for a person like me who really enjoys their single life. I can be selfish and follow my heart, go to places I love, and do whatever the hell I want.

5. I Enjoy My Freedom

Singlehood is giving me a great deal of freedom and autonomy over my life. I can decide to move to France if I want to because no one is tying me down. And honestly, I am in love with this independent lifestyle.

6. I Have More Control Over My Own Money

I like deciding where I spend my money. I can choose to save it for something or treating myself with an expensive dress and jewelry. I earn my own money, I pay my own bills, and I don’t like having to run those decisions by anyone else or feeling inadequate about making less than my partner.

7. I Like Having Time To Grow And Improve Myself

Self-improvement and growth can take a great amount of time and energy. That’s one of the reasons why I like to be single because I always have time for myself.

8. I Have Time To Focus On My Other Important Relationships

Many of us don’t have the emotional and mental energy to deal with a lot of people. This means that many of us don’t have much time and energy to focus on maintaining all the relationships that are important to them. However, when I am single, I can spend more time with my friends and family.

9. I Feel Empowered

I have never felt as strong and powerful in a relationship as I do when I am single. Living the single life forces me to be strong and independent. I am completely in charge of my life and because of it, I make brave decisions who are better for me.

10. I Am The Happiest I Have Ever Been

The truth is, I am happy being single, so why would I give that up?

Mary Wright

Written by Mary Wright

Mary writes from the heart, unafraid to dive into the deepest human emotions. Her essays and short stories transform ordinary moments into literature that lingers.

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