I think one of the most important things when it comes to relationships is having someone who is just as excited as you are to have each other in your lives.
Every relationship starts like this at the beginning – with both partners being happy and excited to be together. There is that initial thrill and infatuation that comes with every new relationship where they feel the butterflies in their stomach and want to spend every moment together.
And I want that. I want to be with someone whose excitement about me doesn’t fade as our relationship progresses. I want to be with someone who keeps investing in our relationship and is thrilled to love me and make me happy every day. Because I am like that. When I get excited about someone, I never lose that feeling. When I love, I love hard and that feeling doesn’t go away.
I don’t want someone who only gets excited about me when I do something for them or when we are alone behind closed doors. I want to be with someone who despite everything, despite every argument, situation, or circumstance doesn’t give up on me and they still look me in the eyes with the same fire, energy, love, and excitement to be with me.
I know that I can’t expect every day to be exciting. I am real. I know that there will be bad, unpleasant, and boring days. Days when we won’t get along. And that’s okay.
But I also know that I can’t be with someone whose passion and zest for life is not strong. I want people who light up my world. I want someone who is full of dreams and things they are excited about. I want someone to match the spark in my eyes and my excitement for them and for life.
Everyone deserves someone who will look at them as they are magic. Someone who will make you feel loved and cared for. Someone who will be excited to start a new life with you.
As for me, I know I am tired of dealing with people who only hold onto me just because I am convenient, or they think they should. I don’t want a relationship that will feel forced.
I want a relationship that consists of two people equally excited about one another.
Therefore, if you are not that person, don’t bother.
Should you have any questions or would like to ask me for advice or hear my opinion on a topic that is important to you, don’t hesitate to send me an email to [email protected] and I’ll be happy to help you.