Finding the right guy is hard, and I’ve been having a particularly difficult time of it recently. After so many failed relationships I’ve decided that I’m no longer going to keep waiting for a frog to turn into a prince. Instead, I’m going to wait for a guy who shows me from the beginning that he’s the one.
I’m not going to settle for a man who’s easily scared away, and neither should you. Here are 6 difficult things that would never scare the right guy away.
1. Trust Issues
Everyone has their own baggage. Likewise, everyone has their own fears when it comes to new relationships. Perhaps previous partners have given you reasons to be less than trusting when it comes to new love interests. Although that may not be the easiest thing to deal with, if he cares about you enough, he won’t run away.
2. Commitment
Relationships aren’t just about fun, they’re about finding a life partner too. Either he’s just there to play games or he’s there because he can genuinely see himself creating a future with you. So, if he’s too scared to commit to you at some point, that probably means that he’s just wasting your time. Despite that, it’s important to remember that it may take a while for him to be ready.
3. Slowing Down
The beginning of a relationship comes with a rush of excitement and love. However, it can be a problem when that rush doesn’t slow down. Then, people can find themselves feeling flustered and unsure of their intentions. If that happens to you, it’s important that you should be able to express that to significant other. Trust me, when you’re with the right man, he won’t mind slowing down a bit if that’s what you want.
4. Tears
There are things in your life that are going to push you far past your comfort zone. As well as that, there will be times when you just can’t handle what’s going on. When that happens, it’s only natural that you’d cry. For those times, you need a man who can handle big, ugly tears and who will support you through it all as well.
5. Disagreements
Ask any couple in the world and they will tell you that they’ve had their fair share of fights. It’s only natural to argue with someone who you spend the majority of your time with. Despite that, the wrong guy will probably pack up and run at the first disagreement. The right man, however, will compromise, listen, and communicate with you to help you both get through it all.
6. Affection
Why should you hide your love for him? Why shouldn’t you kiss him, hold his hand, or cuddle up to him? Being with someone that you love means showing that love for them. Likewise, if they love you, they’ll be more than happy to accept that affection. So, if the man you’re with pulls away when you hold him, he’s definitely not the guy for you.
Watching the person you love run away is a heartwrenching experience. However, it’s an important lesson which teaches you that not everyone you meet is the right person for you. When you find the person that you’re meant to be with, they won’t be scared. They will fit into your life like a puzzle and will stay with you through both bad times and good.
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