You’ve heard all about this cliché before, right?
I mean, let’s face it. We’ve all hoped that once we find the right person, right job, right apartment, we’d eventually feel a peaceful and joyous sensation in our heart.
Yet, some of the people I know have never ever felt that sensation of having their life together. They’ve never hit that jackpot of life. No matter what they did or how hard they worked to get something, some of them never experienced that bliss.
Sadly, I was one of them. I was once the biggest non-believer in that saying, “When it’s finally right, you’ll know.”
I went through life like a normal human being who wanted to experience as much as possible. I explored all of the possible opportunities for me, I worked hard to pursue my humble dreams, I sometimes loved people who were wrong for me, but even though I made some mistakes, I was 100% positive that I’ve done everything in my power to eventually find my way to ‘destination happiness’.
Yet, it never felt like I was there. It never felt like that was it.
Until, one day, it finally did.
Until, one day, I finally felt a strange sense of relief and joy inside my soul. Until everything that once seemed confusing made sense. Until I found out that all of those years I’ve spent on running around and searching for something different were all in vain. Until I realized that I have one life and it is up to me to make it a good one. Until I finally realized that when the right happens, you really know.
There was a time when I refused to believe that those feelings even existed. I refused to follow that notion in life. But, now that I look back at my past experiences, I think that I can understand the reason for my doubts back then. I was disappointed too many times. So, I lost my faith. As a result, I lost all of my hopes for a bright future.
However, now that I’ve finally understood that old cliché, I have something important to say to all of you…
Never give up. Please. I beg of you. Even when it feels like you’re on the verge of a freaking breakdown.
I was very close to falling down and giving up, but I didn’t do it. I didn’t surrender. I choose to fight instead.
I know in my heart that destiny has amazing and remarkable experiences for every single one of us. I believe that we’re all brought here for a certain reason. We all have a particular, unique purpose here on earth. You may feel like you haven’t found yours yet, but you will never know what tomorrow might bring. That is why it’s so important to never give up!
Because when the time comes, when the right person arrives into your life, when the right opportunity hits you, when your destiny meets you halfway, you will know it. You will feel that divine and incredible sensation flowing through your body. A feeling of tranquility will consume your soul. Everything you once questioned will make sense. You will finally realize that every experience in your life and every action you took were for a reason.
When it’s finally right, you will know.
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