Aries, you love living your life to the fullest! Your personal space and independence are the things that you cherish the most and you won’t let anyone take them away from you. You are not scared to live your life alone. In fact, sometimes you believe you will be better like that.
Your biggest fear is having someone restrict you in some shape or form and slow you down. You are terrified of losing the fire that burns so bright inside you. But the truth is, deep inside, you want a committed relationship. You want to love and be loved with the same passion and intensity. You want a healthy and secure relationship in which you will have plenty of room to breathe because you fear someone entering your life and changing your routine.
Taurus, you are very stubborn and so accustomed to your life as it is that you despise change. You live so peacefully and happily in your comfort zone and you can stay there forever. But your comfort zone has also become your barrier from the world and people as you don’t let anyone in. You are so self-reliant that you fear losing your independence and relying on someone else to make you happy and fulfilled.
You may appear heartless and standoffish but, on the inside, you are a hopeless romantic that believes in true love. When it comes to relationships, you only prefer committed and long-term ones. You don’t date around. You don’t do casual dating. You want all or nothing. That’s why you fear to get your heart broken because you’ve learned the hard way that not all people are as genuine as you are.
Gemini, you are so unpredictable! You constantly change your mind due to your insatiable curiosity for experiencing new things and your zest for life. That’s why you are afraid of falling in love. Because you don’t want to be imprisoned by it. You love flirting and meeting new people and at the same time, you hate being stuck in one place. You are afraid of the thought of being committed to one person because you like keeping your options open and you don’t want to think whether the person next to you is the right one.
You always thrive for excitement and new experiences and that’s why you are terrified that falling in love with someone will bring stillness in your life. You want to constantly grow and expand as a person. Your rich social life is sacred to you and you are not willing to give it up or give yourself up for the sake of being in a relationship.
Oh, Cancer… you are the most sensitive and affectionate sign of all the zodiac. You have a nurturing nature that is always there for others. You are not scared to show people how much you love and care for them. When you fall in love, you love with all your being and you give your all to them. You are very trustworthy and dedicated and your partner should consider themselves lucky to have you in their life.
However, this empathic nature of yours has put you in the arms of toxic partners who abused your good intentions. They broke your heart and that’s why now you are afraid to love again. You are afraid to get your heart broken again. Therefore, you are also scared of baring your soul to someone and being vulnerable because you know how fake people can be and only take without giving anything in return.
Leo, everything you do, you do with love and passion! Your world is filled with love and romance. You fall in love quickly because you adore the idea of being in love. However, finding someone compatible and staying in a relationship with them is where it gets tricky. You fear being disappointed and that’s why you are incredibly picky when it comes to choosing your partner. You have very high standards that are probably pushing away possible matches.
You want to be in a reciprocal relationship. You want to be seen, appreciated, and adored. You crave emotional connection and devotion and a lack of it may cause you to fall out of love. You are terrified of giving your heart and soul to someone only to having to separate again due to their lack of making you feel loved.
Virgo, you only reveal the parts of you that you want others to see. Your walls are so high that you almost never let anyone so close to you to know the real you. Your analytical and overly critical nature makes you sometimes hard to deal with, but you are only being hard on yourself. Your desire for perfectionism has attracted many lost and toxic souls to you who needed saving.
That’s where your true fear lies – in the possibility of experiencing love in the truest form and what would that mean to you. The mere idea of having to open to someone and being vulnerable scares you shitless. You are afraid that your partner may not like the not-so-good parts of you that you are hiding deep inside you. Intimacy scares you because, in your belief, everything has to be perfect and so do you. However, you forget that not you, not me, not anyone is or ever will be perfect.
Libra, you are a romantic sign that dreams of true love and being swept off their feet. You fear being alone and that’s the reason why you tend to get yourself involved in casual flings. However, finding your true partner is one of your most important priorities for you. You want to be in a stable and committed relationship with a partner with whom you will share a deep bond – a complete submission of mind, body, and soul.
Your greatest fear is intimacy and revealing yourself to the other person because you are so preoccupied with your flaws and insecurities. Your charming nature makes you great at small talk, meeting new people and forming new connections, however, you fear getting deeper than that. You are scared shitless of loneliness that instead of trying to find love, you are pushing it away. You run from love, so you won’t be abandoned and left out in the cold.
Scorpio, your number one fear is being betrayed by the person you love. You are naturally suspicious of everyone, but the fear of being betrayed in love is greater than anything because it is also accompanied by fears of abandonment and rejection. You want to be able to trust your partner 100 percent, and yet you are so mysterious yourself. Behind your ‘calm, cool, and collected’ exterior, there is an ocean of depth, emotions, skeletons, secrets, and thoughts that only you have access to. Because you fear revealing your true self to others and having them broke your trust and heart.
You are very intense, Scorpio, especially when it comes to love. You don’t accept anything mediocre. You don’t half-ass things. You are brutally honest, and you always tell like it is. You’ve been hurt in the past and that’s why now you are afraid to open up to someone again and losing yourself in the relationship. You fear happiness because you fear getting hurt again. Amazing opportunity and happiness can be in front of your eyes and yet you may not see them because you tend to self-sabotage yourself and everything good that happens to you out of paranoia.
Sagittarius, your energy, curiosity, and your insatiable desire for living life to the fullest has made you crave more exciting experiences and adventures than true love. For you, your biggest fear is living a boring life. You desire constant excitement thus you are scared shitless of having to settle down for a relationship and the routine that you think comes with it. That’s why you always run before you get too attached to someone.
You associate commitment with monotony and boredom and that’s why you are terrified of getting yourself involved in it and having to give up traveling, meeting new people and learning new things. And while you may have a reputation of being a player, you are an idealist when it comes to love, and you don’t want to get involved with emotional manipulators and toxic people.
Your self-control, focus, responsibility, discipline, and self-mastery are astounding! You fear love because, in your opinion, love is always an unpredictable mess, something that doesn’t have a place in your perfectly composed world. You don’t want to allow someone into your life only to make havoc out of it and make you feel like you somehow failed (something that you also hate).
You are very realistic and when it comes to love, you are especially careful, and you don’t wear your rose-tinted glasses. When you are in a relationship you want it to be for the long haul, you want to see a future with your partner, otherwise, you won’t even start. For you, love is an investment of time, money, energy, and effort. You always want to be perceived as strong and therefore, you fear losing the upper hand when it comes to the matters of the heart.
Aquarius, your need for freedom and alone time is great and sometimes, you feel like falling in love will limit you in some way. You are extremely committed and loyal when you are in a relationship and while you give your partner all the freedom they need, you expect the same in return. You fear being smothered in a relationship.
You are scared that you are never going to find someone who will understand you and your individuality. Someone who will understand how much you need to have a space for doing your own things. Your gut instinct never fails you, even though you are always guided by logic and not emotions because you fear that love will make you look like a crazy and stupid person. You fear trusting someone and opening yourself for love because you’ve been hurt before and you don’t want to go through it again.
Pisces, your greatest fear is being taken advantage of. You are very generous and sensitive, and you are always there to help everyone in need without expecting anything in return. That’s why you attract troubled and tortured souls that are in dire need of healing. You don’t have very strong boundaries and your naïve selfless nature immediately wants to rescue them and love them, but unfortunately, those souls you help heal are oftentimes the same ones that end up breaking your heart.
You are hopeless romantic that wants to find “the one.” You want the fairytale kind of love. The everlasting one. This is what makes you terrified of love because you know that you are prone to getting yourself attached to someone too easily and unfortunately, it is usually with the wrong person. And now, you want to avoid getting hurt at all costs.
Numerology and what is astrology is an ancient practice that can help you divine truth about yourself, the world around you, future events, and even the universe.
Pythagoras, who famously created a geometrical theorem, is often credited as the founder of numerology. He believed, as many others do, that numbers and mathematical formulas are magical things that prove the existence of a higher power.
An ancient combination of mathematics, language, and philosophy makes numerology what it is today. Numerological calculations may initially seem confusing or complicated. But the process of finding your personality number is relatively straightforward.
What Is a Personality Number?
Numerology can help you discover your life path, your heart’s desire, and so much more. Personality numbers can help you to learn more about yourself and how you think, act, and feel. A personality number is always a single digit.
If you’re seeking to find some insight into your character and how others view you, you must discover and understand your personality number. Let’s get started!
How To Find Your Personality Number
When it comes to finding your personality number, consonants are your friends. Each consonant in your name has a numerical value, and these values are added together to find a sum. Often, this sum is a two-digit or three-digit number.
But, by separating this number into single integers and adding them together, you can usually arrive at a single-digit number. This number is your personality number.
The values assigned to each letter originate from the ancient Chaldean peoples that lived in Babylon.
Letters J and S all correspond to number one. Letters B, K, and T correspond to number two. By moving through the consonants in the English alphabet and counting them 1-9, you can easily create a numerology chart for efficient calculations.
Here is a helpful example of a name’s corresponding personality number. Tom May has four consonants in his name. They can be viewed as T (2) + M (4) + M (4) + Y (7) = 17. This is, of course, a two-digit number. To figure out the personality number, this sum must become two separate integers.
Therefore, 1 + 7 = 8. Tom May’s personality number is 8! This process may take a little practice, but you’re bound to get it down in no time. Once you’ve arrived at your personality number, you can begin to learn more about what that number means.
What Do the Personality Numbers Mean?
Did you find out that you’re a scholarly 7? Maybe you’re a friendly 2! No matter which number you got, here’s some helpful personality number information so you can understand a bit more about yourself!
If you discovered that your personality number is 1, you’re a natural leader. But, you likely already know this about yourself. Your ambition is one of your most defining features!
One of the most significant challenges for you is learning patience and compassion. You value hard work and persistence more than almost anything. Meeting people with little confidence can be frustrating for you!
If your personality number is 2, you’re an honest person. You tend to act with kindness, and others likely perceive you as being very gentle and trustworthy.
You’re a philosopher that enjoys time alone and time with friends and family. Often laidback and easy-going, you tend to roll with whatever punches life throws at you. However, others may think that you’re moody or emotional.
If you’re a Number 3, then you’re pretty lucky! You have some exceptional characteristics, such as charisma, charm, and smarts. This makes you stand out from those around you, as you give off intense energy.
You’re most likely optimistic about most things in life, and you tend to be the most talkative of your friends and family. Don’t worry about annoying anyone — people love your spirit and cheerful attitude!
If you came to find that your personality number is 4, then you’re a well-organized person. If you made a chart to figure out your number, you probably used a ruler or straight-edged item to ensure that the table looks stunning.
You’re a frugal, hard-working person that desires appreciation for all that you do. Therefore, it’s crucial that you surround yourself with kind and compassionate individuals.
Number 5’s are full of energy. They also tend to have eclectic tastes and interests, an inability to control their impulses, and a vivid imagination. If you’re a Number 5, take heart. You’re the life of the party!
But your exuberance can be excessive, which is why it’s essential for people with this personality number to learn self-control and respect the wishes of others.
If you’re a Number 6, then you’re a natural-born caretaker. You may find yourself continually giving advice and assistance to friends, family members, and co-workers. Anyone in need seems to grab your attention!
You are likely generous with your time, energy, and resources. For you, the essential thing in life is making those around you comfortable. This can lead to situations where you’re taken advantage of, though, so be careful.
Number 7’s tend to enjoy pursuits of the mind. If your personality number is 7, others likely perceive you as being an enigma of sorts. You’re highly independent, secretive, and academic.
You may keep to yourself and only speak when compelled to do so. Others may see this as shyness or disinterest, but for you, it’s a matter of importance. You tend to conserve your energies for larger, more personal projects.
If your personality number is 8, then your intuition is keen. You can judge situations with ease and accuracy, which can allow you to achieve tremendous heights of success. You may tend to surround yourself with powerful or influential people.
However, your controlling nature and desire for attention and affluence could end up being your downfall. Remember to respect the little people, and you should be fine!
Number 9 personalities tend to be charitable and influential. As with Number 1 personalities, you may be extremely confident and gregarious. However, this sometimes comes off as pure arrogance to those around you.
While you’re likely talented and a creative problem solver, you may begin to think of yourself as better or above others. Don’t allow yourself to fall into this trap! While you are undoubtedly exceptional, it is vital that you learn to appreciate those around you.
Embrace Your Personality Number
Though you may feel that your personality number doesn’t accurately describe you, give it some deep thought. Chances are, you may be hiding an aspect of yourself that you do not wish to reveal or embrace.
The beauty of discovering your personality number is that it allows you to feel a sense of connectedness with yourself and with the energy you give to the world! Once you’ve mastered and fully understood your number, you can explore other aspects of numerology, like your life path.
Doing so may grant you the clarity and peace of mind you’ve been seeking!